What did you do with your children while in hospital?

(deactivated member)
on 10/29/10 4:31 am, edited 10/29/10 4:40 am - WAKE FOREST, NC
If my husband could be in two places at once, we'd be doing great! Ha ha!  I'm having my surgery at Durham Regional next week and will probably be there 3 days, maybe 4. I have a 9 YO and a 5 YO. I know that I want them to visit while I'm there, but I don't think I want them there all the live long day. I do want my husband there at least the majority of the day. We also have no family in town and all of my friends have small children and busy work schedules of their own. Depending on them at all isn't an option.

We live in Wake Forest about 45 mins from the hospital. I've looked into hotels in the area. It's an expense but doable, I suppose. The girls could also go to school during the day, but I'm not going to get hung up about it if they don't.

Any advice, ideas?
Dena W.
on 10/29/10 11:50 am - Tarpon Springs, FL
My youngest was 8 at the time I had my surgery, and I also had a 17 and 18 year old at home.  My youngest stayed with me in the hospital the night of surgery (they have a recliner and a couch that makes into a bed in every room).  He was in school and my husband also stayed and made sure our son got to school in the morning.  The oldest kids took care of themselves at home. 
                                                 Dena
See my YouTube vlogs here:  http://www.youtube.com/user/LiLtinee
Add me as a friend on Facebook:    Dena Waskiewicz               
Starting weight:  297 / Goal weight:  140's / Current weight:  138-143
Lap RNY 3/12/2007 ~ Fleur-de-Lis tummy tuck 7/12/2010

(deactivated member)
on 10/30/10 6:52 am - WAKE FOREST, NC
Thanks Dena!  :)
Missy1975
on 10/30/10 9:04 am - Graham, NC
If I was little closer to Durham and a little further out from surgery, then I'd offer to sit for you.  I know that I wanted my husband there as much as possible...he's like my security blanket!  I hope you figure this out!
(deactivated member)
on 10/31/10 2:09 pm - WAKE FOREST, NC
Aw! You're so sweet, Missy. I really do appreciate the kind offer. I have a friend of mine who offered to let my girls stay the nights with her. I think it will all work out OK actually! 

I hope you're feeling OK! How are things with you? ((HUGS!))
Most Active
Recent Topics
13 years and counting
Jennifer K. · 0 replies · 679 views
Elizabeth City, NC
Vampy · 0 replies · 1746 views
12 years!
Jennifer K. · 0 replies · 1401 views
Raleigh area doctors
ncgoaliemom · 0 replies · 1750 views
NC Forum
Sheryl28518 · 0 replies · 2787 views
×