How women react to my weight loss... wierd

Oh Diane...  Wake up, Wake up, oh pleaseeeeeeeeee WAKE UP!!!!   Come to Camp Lejeune...  I'm a 911 dispatcher...  It's been a busy night and I'd love to come home...   Then I could go to church, that would be good - yeah, sounds good to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   I'm not sure my boss would approve, but heck.............   it would be nice!   lol,  Get some good sleep girl!  I know by now you're probably having sweet dreams!!!!! Sheryl 

Hey Sheryl, I'm up and guess what?  It's an hour earlier than my clocks!  Oh my, that means you worked an extra hour!  Now are you awake?  Diane

Dang Diane...   I missed your comment because it was so busy... ugh!  Well, I'm here tonight and all ready for you to come relieve me!!!!  It's Sunday night so hopefully it won't be too busy!   Come on... PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I'm on my knees beggin!  LOL!!!! Have a great night! Sheryl

I've noticed some similar reactions already and I'm not even below 200 lbs at this point. Particularly from women on other shifts that have crushes on the guys that I work with. I notice snubbing and borderline rudenss from them on occasion. I personally think it's funny and make sure I pay extra attention to my guys when they are around.  That's pretty petty and immature, but those chicks have no idea that I would be the LAST person to have a relationship with any man that I work with and all the guys I work with are married! So shame on THEM! lol Sorry didn't mean to go off on my own tangent there. Keep your head held high and remember that those who are making you feel odd are simply jealous and insecure.  {{{hugs}}} Holley

OMG Holley, Boy oh boy did you tell it like it is!  What is it with women, jealousy and married men on the work place?  And I am the LAST person (running behind you) to have a relationship with any man I work with, let alone a MARRIED man, oh yuck! I say SEND THOSE MARRIED MEN HOME TO THEIR WIVES!  I've seen it way too many times. Love, Diane

Exactly! I completely agree with you! I'm always asking about their wives and kids, especially when those women are around. I just don't understand some!  BTW, I'm glad you got to take your personal day. I hope you had a good day. :)

I agree with you gals!  Let the married men go home to their families!  I'm following along with the two of you.  I don't want anything to do with them!!!!   I work on base and it's totally funny watching the women flirting with the married Marines... ugh!  On this base either their married, gay or in their 20's and I'm 45 - ohhh  yuck, they could be my kids!  The women here have nothing to worry about with me, even though I am single, but it is weird how they get VERY jelous!  Plus I have my man already and don't want another!  Happy girl, happy girl, I'm a happy girl!  LOL!!!!!  Sheryl

I was the biggest person at my work. Now I am the smallest. People that talked to me before don't talk to me now. I have no friends at all. I have one work friend but that is it. And she didn't know me when I was big. I don't even look up I keep my head down all the time. And people will say "she thinks she is all that" what did I do? I am to sick to try to show off my body and how good can you look in scrubs that are 5 times to big. I have no ass or boobs. I look sick and stick thin. Why they gotta hate me. I am still the same person. I have got where I defend myself so much I have turned into a total ***** I am sick of getting called skinny ***** or anorexic Amy. I think they are the one with the problem not me..........they just wish they could be this skinny...............they have money they could go and get it done as easy as me...........oh god that one hits a nerve with me. Judge me by what they see not how they know me........I am a good person............. amy