Road Just got a little longer

As some of you guys know from reading my post, I've been awaiting my DH to get through his probationary period with his new employer so he can enroll me on his health insurance so I can officially start my WLS journey . Well, when DH was hired he thought his HR informed him his probation would only be for 60 days...... well throughout my long very eventful and emotional weekend I read DH's Employer Handbook (which I should have done from the beginning).. and his probation period is 90 days not 60 . Well, I actually suprised myself, maybe due to other things going on in my life, but I took it calmly and just decided as someone in my support group says...."this is going to be in gods time not in mine". I feel everything is happening for a reason, from my insurance haveing a written exclusion for WLS to being told I possibly have IBD... the one thing concidered contrain to WLS.. and now DH's insurance not being available another 30 days... well I figure it gives me and my body time to get the Gastro Espophageal and Intestinal complications calmed down a bit (my IBD and GERD), to get the children back in school and have my female surgery........and after all this begin my WLS journey. I'm actually suprised at myself taking thinking this through so calmly and rationally... Concidering I'm stressed enough and gaining enough additional weight I really don't need to add anything else to the plate of stress (Oh I've quit smoking again and I've been nicotene clean for 3 weeks, I had quit in November but then started back in March, my IBD is soooo glad i've quit again and I am too. Well as ususal thanks for listening....

Glad you are keeping positive! Always hard to hear of a longer delay but as you stated its allowing you more time to get healthier for the surgery! Just keep doing as your doing and the day will be here before you know it!!