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Topic: RE: Hi, I am new here,
Welcome,
One thing to always remember is that the military comes first and they wont let you forget that!!
I think it will be hard at first, it was for me but you get use to it, and it is good for young men in my opinion.
Also in my opinion there is no better man than a military man!
Topic: RE: Hi, I am new here,
Sorry forgot to say WELCOME to the Board! Glad to have you here.
Donna S
Ft. Stewart GA
Topic: RE: Hi, I am new here,
The Army just makes everybody "hurry up and wait" I think that is crap but its true. Ive learned that since being an Army wife and just by working with the Army. Everything is done the hardway and you ALWAYS "hurry up and wait" lol
Donna S
Ft. Stewart GA
Topic: RE: Still around but surgery process is stalled
Fort Bragg and Camp Lejeune are about 3 hours from each other. When I worked with the Army we went TDY to Camp Lejeune and worked with the Marines on a water purification system, I had friends at Bragg so on the weekends I would drive to Bragg and it would take me right at 3 hours, also depends on how heavy your foot is and there are a few ways you can go.
Camp Lejeune has cottages you can rent on the beach, and from what I understand as long as you are military you can rent them, I thought about doing that this past summer but things just didn't work to my advantage to be able to go, not sure if they still rent them out but you could check into it. I loved camp Lejeune, great fishing area, great seafood all together.
Hugs
Donna
Topic: RE: Still around but surgery process is stalled
Yes, we are Army! Looks like we'll be about 100 miles apart. Camp Lejuene looks like it is close to Jacksonville. Fort Bragg is outside of Fayetteville. So I'll be just northwest of you (more west than north). You will be much closer to the beaches then we will. I'm jealous!
We are excited to move to NC too. We've heard great things about it as well! November can't come fast enough!!
Again, good luck in your journey!
Andi
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Topic: RE: Still around but surgery process is stalled
We will be in Camp Lejuene. I heard so many good things about NC! I cant wait!
Fort Bragg is where? I even asked my DH and he didnt even know! All I know is that you must be Army.
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Topic: RE: Hi, I am new here,
Well when I became a military wife, I learned as I went along. I am still learning and I have been married to my Marine for 5 years now.
I know that the military, well more the Marines, do very strict discipline and I dont know about the Army and they do change the person in bootcamp. They learn responsibility but I dont know about patience. He will have to learn that to not **** off the drill sergeants...so he may learn the hard way. But he will be OK. I think that bootcamp is good for alot of people.
I come from a military family, my grandpa is a Pearl Harbor Survivor, my ggrandpa was in WWI, my uncle was a Marine..my g-aunt is one of the first female Marines...but I still didnt know much about the military until I became a Marine wife!
I would hope your son will have patience....they will take care of everything, drive him where he needs to be and everything. LET THEM CALL HIM...
Topic: RE: Still around but surgery process is stalled
LOL I didn't even think of that Andrea!! I guess you are right that would put a strain on the breasts :0)
Most everyone that I have spoken to says that the tummy tuck and the breast lift hurt more than the Gastric Bypass. I am like you....I do think the pain would be worth it in the end!!
Anyways, I am glad that Tricare is helpful even after the surgery.
Jaye Jaye
Topic: Hi, I am new here,
Hi I think I am going to become a military mom.... my son is going to sign up as soon as they can get everything ready..... He made an appointment last friday to get the paperwork started but the recruiter wasnt at the office when he got there.... So he said he wil call her back this week, or go to the armery in terre haute indiania..
Do this recruiters make appointments and not be there often... This is hard enough for me...and he wants to do this not be messed around with... If they make him mad he wont do this... he has no patients which is what I hope the army can help him with...
Anyway I know nothing about the military, we are not a military family. In fact no one is in the military, not no one....I have no clue how any of this works....
Topic: RE: Still around but surgery process is stalled
Julie, I'd probably do the same thing if I were you. $2000 is a bit much! You've probably already said, but were in NC will you be stationed? DH, I and the kids are got to Fort Bragg at the end of November. Will we be any where close? I did a quick search a long while ago for surgeons there, hoping to find a good support group to join. I'll have to do a real search for one soon.
Oh, and while we were stationed at Fort Polk, LA (back in 2004-5) I went in to my PCP (as I had many other times in the past) for weight loss help. He told me (he was a very optimistic guy!) that once I lost all my weight, if I wanted he'd put in a referral for a tummy tuck. He said the Army would pay for my travel to Fort Sam Houston, TX and all other expenses too at 100% while I was there. I'm thinking Walter Reed probably does this too. That will be something I'll be bugging my PCP about after I get to goal in NC.
Jaye, I think they (plastic surgeons) do the TT and BL separately because of the way they are pulling the skin in each surgery. The TT the upper tummy is pulled down to meet the lower tummy. You don't want to pull those breasts down when you've just tried to pull them up. KWIM?
I'm kind of scared of the surgeries right now. It is one thing to have 3-6 small holes from a lap surgery. The long incision kind of freaks me out right now, but I'm sure it is worth it. Keep telling myself that!!