Menopause and Weightloss

Ok, Some of us are heading and going through MENOPAUSE!!! There is no pause!!!! What is going on with the weight loss part.? Will it ever move? I am burning up most of the time, and then I am freezing the rest of the time. SEX??? No friggin way...Ok, someone give me a happy thought..

ive been in peri-menapause since i was 43 i am now 50
hotflashes i have alot , then sometimes i dont have at all. i havent had aunt flow in 8 months, and sex? well im very sexual, so it didnt hurt me in that dept. my husband said i should have been born a man lolol.
before the surgery , no matter what i did, i couldnt lose weight. im a gym rat ,so going to the gym 5 days a week ,didnt make that god aweful scale move. thats when i decided on the wls ,and it has been working. statistics say being in peri-menapause u automatically gain 10-20 pds no way hoseeeee not for me im gonna do everything in my power to beat it
so i eagerly wait to see if i dont get aunt flo for another 4 months str8 then im free sailing wahoooooo !!!!!