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Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/31/10 10:41 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..
Happy Friday Eve..

Today I am grateful..

For you..

For my REAL friends..

For courage..

For knowledge..

For wisdom..
Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
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Patricia R.
on 3/31/10 10:01 pm - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: NH
http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/

The above link will help you find a therapist who deals with eating disorders.  I am sure that they must have dealt with WLS patients as well as they are related issues.

Good luck.
Trish

Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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hollyp83
on 3/31/10 4:25 pm - Dover, NH
Topic: NH
 Not sure if this is the right forum but....I think I'd like to go to a therapist. I'm almost a year post op and this year has been so crazy, I think talking to an unbiased person wouldn't hurt. Does anyone know of anybody in NH that specializes in WLS patients?
Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/30/10 10:47 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..
Happy Hump Day..

Today I am grateful..

For waking up..

For the air that I breathe..

For the clothes I have on my back..

For the job that I have..

For another day with Bill..
Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
RHONDA FROM KY
on 3/30/10 9:56 pm - ALEXANDRIA, KY
Topic: ~SPIRITUAL NOT RELIGIOUS~ A DAY AT A TIME
03/31 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY
My illness is unlike most other illnesses in that DENIAL that I am sick is a primary symptom that I AM sick.  Like such other incurable illnesses as diabetes and arthritis, however, my illness is characterized by relapses.  In The Program, we call such relapses "slips."  The one thing I know for certain is that I alone can cause myself to slip.  WILL I REMEMBER AT ALL TIMES THAT THE THOUGHT PRECEDES THE ACTION?  WILL I TRY TO AVOID "STINKING THINKING?"

TODAY I PRAY
May God give me the power to resist temptations.  May the responsibility for giving in, for having a "slip," be on my shoulders and mine only.  May I see BEFOREHAND if I am setting myself up for a slip by blame-shifting, shirking my responsibility to myself, becoming the world's poor puppet once again.  My return to those old attitudes can be as much of a slip as the act of losing my sobriety.

TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
Nobody's slip-proof.

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin

Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/29/10 10:46 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..
Today I am grateful..

That I still have my job..

For  the weekend coming up..

That hopefully I will get to see the boy..

For being given the vote.. LOL

For being a friend of Bill..
Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
RHONDA FROM KY
on 3/29/10 9:29 pm - ALEXANDRIA, KY
Topic: ~SPIRITUAL NOT RELIGIOUS~ A DAY AT A TIME
03/30 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY
"When I meditate upon such a vision," Bill W. continued, "I need not be dismayed because I shall never attain it, nor need I swell with presumption that one of these days its virtues shall all be mine.  I only need to dwell on the vision itself, letting it grow and ever more fill my heart.... Then I get a sane and healthy idea of where I stand on the highway to humility.  I see that my journey towards God has scarcely begun.  As I thus get down to my right size and stature, my self-concern and importance become amusing."  DO I TAKE MYSELF TOO SERIOUSLY?

TODAY I PRAY
May the grandiosity which is a symptom of my chemical addiction be brought back into proportion by the simply comparison of my powerlessness with the power of God.  May I think of the meaning of Higher Power as it relates to my human frailty.  May it bring my ego back down to scale and help me shed my defenses of pomp or bluster or secret ideas of self-importance.

TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
He is great.  I am small.

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin

RHONDA FROM KY
on 3/29/10 1:54 am - ALEXANDRIA, KY
Topic: ~SPIRITUAL NOT RELIGIOUS~ A DAY AT A TIME
03/29 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY
What is the definition of humility?  "Absolute humility," said AA cofounder Bill W., "would consist of a state of complete freedom from myself, freedom from all the claims that my defects of character now lay so heavily upon me.  Perfect humility would be a full willingness, in all times and places, to find and to do the will of God."  AM I STRIVING FOR HUMILITY?

TODAY I PRAY
May God expand my interpretation of humility beyond abject subservience or awe at the greatness of others.  May humility also mean freedom from myself, a freedom which can come only through turning my being over to God's will.  May I sense the omnipotence of God, which is simultaneously humbling and exhilarating.  May I be willing to carry out His will.

TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
Humility is freedom.

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin

Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/28/10 11:01 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..
Good Monday Morning..

Today I am grateful..

For two hour phone calls.. It's been a while..

For standing back up..

For the little things that make you smile..

For the great season the Lady Vols had.. Now someone be U Conn..

For my life.. It hasn't been easy but it has been mine..
Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/25/10 10:52 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..

GOOD MORNING OH'ERS.. IT'S FRIDAY! !

Today I am grateful..

For my cell phone..

For the great people in my life..

For those friends that were in my life and made it worthwhile..

For smiles and cries..

For the tool I have been given..

I am putting a poem this week instead of a song..

SEEKING THE CAUSE BY MIGUEL PINERO

he was Dead
he never Lived
died
died
he died seekin' a Cause
seekin' the Cause
because
he said
he never saw the cause
but he heard
the cause
heard the cryin' of hungry ghetto children
heard the warnin' from Malcolm
heard the tractors pave new routes to new prisons
died seekin' the Cause
seekin' a Cause
he was dead on arrival
he never really Lived
uptown . . . downtown . . . crosstown
body was round all over town
seekin' the Cause
thinkin' the Cause was 75 dollars & gator shoes
thinkin' the Cause was sellin' the white lady to black
children
thinkin' the cause is to be found in gypsy rose or j. b.
or dealin' wacky weed
and singin' du-wops in the park after some chi-chiba
he died seekin' the Cause
died seekin' a Cause
and the Cause was dyin' seekin' him
and the Cause was dyin' seekin' him
and the Cause was dyin' seekin' him
he wanted a color t. v.
wanted a silk on silk suit
he wanted the Cause to come up like the mets & take the
world series
he wanted . . . he wanted . . . he wanted . . . he wanted
to want more wants
but
he never gave
he never gave

[p. 24]


he never gave his love to children
he never gave his heart to old people
&
never did he ever give his soul to his people
he never gave his soul to his people
because he was busy seekin' a cause
busy
busy perfectin' his voice to harmonize the national anthem
with spiro t agnew
busy perfectin' his jive talk so that his flunkiness
wouldn't show
busy perfectin' his viva-la-policia speech
downtown . . . uptown . . . midtown . . . crosstown
his body was found all over town
seekin' a Cause
seekin' the Cause
found
in the potter fields of an o. d.
found
in the bowery with the d. d. t.'s
his legs were left in viet-nam
his arms were found in sing-sing
his scalp was on Nixon's belt
his blood painted the streets of the ghetto
his eyes were still lookin' for jesus to come down
on some cloud & make everything ok
when jesus died in attica
his brains plastered all around the frames of the pentagon
his voice still yellin' stars & stripes 4 ever
riddled with the police bullets his taxes bought
he died seekin' a Cause
seekin' the Cause
while the Cause was dyin' seekin' him
he died yesterday
he's dyin' today
he's dead tomorrow
died seekin' a Cause
died seekin' the Cause
& the Cause was in front of him
& the Cause was in his skin
& the Cause was in his speech
& the Cause was in his blood
but
he died seekin' the Cause
he died seekin' a Cause
he died
deaf
dumb
&
blind
he died
& never found his Cause
because
you see he never never
knew that he was the
Cause.

MOVIE QUOTE OF THE WEEK..

"Hell yes they deserved to die and I hope they burn in hell"  from A time to Kill

Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
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