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Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
I am thankful for the Lord and His many blessings in my life.
I am thankful to be sober.
I am thankful for my 2 beautiful buggas Kayla & Nora *****mind me every minute of the day that life is ever changing and amazing.
I am thankful for the sunshine, warmth & nature.
I am thankful for taking things into my own hands and getting the answers I need.
I am thankful to be sober.
I am thankful for my 2 beautiful buggas Kayla & Nora *****mind me every minute of the day that life is ever changing and amazing.
I am thankful for the sunshine, warmth & nature.
I am thankful for taking things into my own hands and getting the answers I need.
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow. Topic: RE: I think this is the forum for me lol!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Good am Tammy,
Quitting ANY addiction isn't easy but its very much worth it. Its going to take some work. Sometimes until something dramatic happens to ourselves we don't see what everyone else does. Anxiety is real and needs to be dealt with as well. Its time to shed your negative identity for a newer, fresher perspective on life. You're worth it right? So, why not seek the help that you need and ditch the cigs and begin to manage your life in a healither more manageable way. There are tons of supportive & encouraging folks here. Let us know what we can do to support you.
All best!
Quitting ANY addiction isn't easy but its very much worth it. Its going to take some work. Sometimes until something dramatic happens to ourselves we don't see what everyone else does. Anxiety is real and needs to be dealt with as well. Its time to shed your negative identity for a newer, fresher perspective on life. You're worth it right? So, why not seek the help that you need and ditch the cigs and begin to manage your life in a healither more manageable way. There are tons of supportive & encouraging folks here. Let us know what we can do to support you.
All best!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow. Topic: RE: Just found this forum
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Good am,
Its incredibly important to be honest about all of this and seek help before your WLS and continue it through the WLS journey if that is what you choose. Addictions CAN and WILL carry over into the WLS lifestyle as well. The first step is admitting your addictions. Kudos to you for that. Take the steps you need to NOW to ensure a more successful journey. All best!
Its incredibly important to be honest about all of this and seek help before your WLS and continue it through the WLS journey if that is what you choose. Addictions CAN and WILL carry over into the WLS lifestyle as well. The first step is admitting your addictions. Kudos to you for that. Take the steps you need to NOW to ensure a more successful journey. All best!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow. Topic: RE: Manner of speech question
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Good am Lauren,
Two things immediately spring to mind as I've dealt with them much of my life. ADD/ADHD & Executive Functioning. There is a wealth of information available via the internet and materials via the library/bookstore. These are very real and there are aids to help in working on them. Hope this helps some.
Two things immediately spring to mind as I've dealt with them much of my life. ADD/ADHD & Executive Functioning. There is a wealth of information available via the internet and materials via the library/bookstore. These are very real and there are aids to help in working on them. Hope this helps some.
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow. Topic: RE: Slippery slope!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Good am Kristi,
First, congrats on being sober since 5th April. :) Next, know that you are NOT alone. As has been suggested by replies previous to mine seek help NOW. There is help even when you don't have insurance. Contact your local mental health agency & arm yourself with knowledge/information. I know about the "suck it up" deal from others. I hear you loud and clear and I'm almost 18 months sober and I STILL think about drinking.
You are reaching out for help here. Please reach out locally & keep us posted. PM me if you'd like to talk.
First, congrats on being sober since 5th April. :) Next, know that you are NOT alone. As has been suggested by replies previous to mine seek help NOW. There is help even when you don't have insurance. Contact your local mental health agency & arm yourself with knowledge/information. I know about the "suck it up" deal from others. I hear you loud and clear and I'm almost 18 months sober and I STILL think about drinking.
You are reaching out for help here. Please reach out locally & keep us posted. PM me if you'd like to talk.
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow. Topic: RE: Healthy cross addititions
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Good am Pat,
This is a good post. For me, I've turned my addiction into something I've always done but finally have the extra push and that is writing & support. I'm writing my story and have become addicted to helping others who have struggled with addiction transfer after WLS. I want others to know they are not alone. I also pursue activities such as gardening, getting out in nature, walking & get togethers with friends on a consistent basis.
Addiction in my opinion is a life long struggle but we CAN get through it. Wishing you the best!
This is a good post. For me, I've turned my addiction into something I've always done but finally have the extra push and that is writing & support. I'm writing my story and have become addicted to helping others who have struggled with addiction transfer after WLS. I want others to know they are not alone. I also pursue activities such as gardening, getting out in nature, walking & get togethers with friends on a consistent basis.
Addiction in my opinion is a life long struggle but we CAN get through it. Wishing you the best!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow. Topic: RE: How do you know when drinking is a problem?
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03
Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥
Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com
Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Hi AmandaJo,
Transfer of addiction happens a lot easier than many folks think. A lot of times we get there before we realize it. For me, I never dran****il I was 28. It started with sips, then 1/2 a drink, a whole drink to the point it got way out of control in just 4 months or so. What seemed to be casual drinks at the time almost cost me my life. Its incredibly tough to battle addiction. But it can be done. We all falter but you are not alone.
I've been sober going on 18 months & its not been easy by any stretch of the imagination. I encourage you to seek counseling, attend AA if that is something you can commit to, seek help & support from fam & friends and remember that you have to learn to crawl before you can walk. You can read my story & many others by clicking the link in my signature line.
In addition, I've picked up 3 books (with more I'd like to get) that are helping me work through sobriety issues. Personally, I have attended AA meetings but they are NOT my cup of tea. The first 2 books are a book & workbook combination. They are called "A Woman's Way through the Twelve Steps." At first, I felt like isn't this going backwards doing these steps NOW?" But that couldn't be further from the truth. I LOVE these because they are writting in a women's point of view. The 3rd is "The Twelve Steps of Alcoholic's Anonymous" which is the original 12 Step book.
Another one that has truly helped which I am reading AGAIN is called "Boundaries." Its faith based and may not be for everyone but can be applied no matter what your religious background. It helps us draw our lines in the sand and make changes in our daily lives slowly but surely to regain control.
All best!
Transfer of addiction happens a lot easier than many folks think. A lot of times we get there before we realize it. For me, I never dran****il I was 28. It started with sips, then 1/2 a drink, a whole drink to the point it got way out of control in just 4 months or so. What seemed to be casual drinks at the time almost cost me my life. Its incredibly tough to battle addiction. But it can be done. We all falter but you are not alone.
I've been sober going on 18 months & its not been easy by any stretch of the imagination. I encourage you to seek counseling, attend AA if that is something you can commit to, seek help & support from fam & friends and remember that you have to learn to crawl before you can walk. You can read my story & many others by clicking the link in my signature line.
In addition, I've picked up 3 books (with more I'd like to get) that are helping me work through sobriety issues. Personally, I have attended AA meetings but they are NOT my cup of tea. The first 2 books are a book & workbook combination. They are called "A Woman's Way through the Twelve Steps." At first, I felt like isn't this going backwards doing these steps NOW?" But that couldn't be further from the truth. I LOVE these because they are writting in a women's point of view. The 3rd is "The Twelve Steps of Alcoholic's Anonymous" which is the original 12 Step book.
Another one that has truly helped which I am reading AGAIN is called "Boundaries." Its faith based and may not be for everyone but can be applied no matter what your religious background. It helps us draw our lines in the sand and make changes in our daily lives slowly but surely to regain control.
All best!
Kitty Kat - Lap RNY 29th Jan 03 Blessed Momma to ♥ Kayla & Nora ♥ Sober since 25th Aug 07 www.the-butterfly-chronicles.blogspot.com Thankful for the easy, grateful for the hard & hopeful for tomorrow.
Topic: Grateful Post..
Happy Hump Day..
Today I am grateful..
That I get to play dress up for work because I clean up nice..
For Daisy.. I have found another woman that loves me unconditionally..
For the morning sun..
For the air that I breathe..
That I will be attending the Texas Weightloss Summitt and I hope to inspire someone..
Today I am grateful..
That I get to play dress up for work because I clean up nice..
For Daisy.. I have found another woman that loves me unconditionally..
For the morning sun..
For the air that I breathe..
That I will be attending the Texas Weightloss Summitt and I hope to inspire someone..
Ramon Lopez
Co-Founder
http://www.rydobesity.com
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
Co-Founder
http://www.rydobesity.com
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
Topic: I think this is the forum for me lol!
You know I think its just a night for sharing does anyone ever have nights like that? I was reading the cover story about Charlie Im sure most of you have read it, and the part about her hubby passing away from lung cancer just Screamed at me! Ive been so negative when it comes to my quitting smoking but I REALLY DO NEED TO QUIT! Its just as important if not more than losing the weight. I really get discouraged though and think to myself how can anyone do both at the same time. Im not trying to be a whiner please forgive me its just sooo..... hard to imagine myself without a cigg. I can imagine myself without food before I could a cigg. Isent that awful? Sometimes my anxiety kicks in and I think well youve probably got cancer somewhere by now anyway so why worry about it? That comes from being caretaker to both dad and brother with cancer three years ago {the scaredy cat stuff} both diagnosed several months apart, and both passed several months apart. Im just feeling like its kinda a hopeless situation right now. I dont know what to expect with all the upcoming changes its really scary and Ive just now realized how scaired I really am. The ciggs have always been my fallback for everything. get upset, uncomfortable ,anxious. whatever, smoke a cigg. Now all the diet changes on top of it whoa! thats alot. I think its an identity thing thats who i have always been overweight and a smoker who am i going to be now? LOL! I know it sounds crazy but it is true. Any thoughts welcome!
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on 1/20/09 2:50 pm - UK
on 1/20/09 2:50 pm - UK
Topic: RE: Grateful Post..
Today I am grateful:
For becoming accepted where in the past I wasn't
for being able to push myself
for being able to do fitness events for charity
For becoming accepted where in the past I wasn't
for being able to push myself
for being able to do fitness events for charity
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