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Patricia R.
on 3/13/09 10:24 pm - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: On Shaky Ground
I have cat allergies and was sick with sinus infections since October.  I have since had sinus surgery, from which I am still recuperating.

How have you been?

Trish

Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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natalie1975
on 3/13/09 7:06 pm - Yardley, PA
Topic: RE: On Shaky Ground
i am so sorry...what happened that you had to give up your animals?

 

Kathy
on 3/13/09 1:18 pm - Hamilton, NJ
Patricia R.
on 3/13/09 10:36 am - Perry, MI
Topic: 2 Months of Sobriety
I was sick most of the week with a post-operative sinus infection.  I just want to share that I had two months of sobriety on March 11th.  God and AA are helping me keep sober. 

Trish

Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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Georgina R.
on 3/13/09 3:02 am - Bakersfield, CA
Topic: RE: agoraphobia?
Thanks, Britt.  My medication's really starting to help too.  I think me and my psychiatrist finally found a combination that works for me.  Yay!

HUUUGS!
meloh
on 3/13/09 12:49 am - MN
Topic: RE: Nine years in recovery, want to have WLS
 I wonder if it is safer for you to have the lapband surgery? I know that you have nine years into recovery (congratulations, by the way, that's wonderful!) but, once you don't have food to lean on,  your body would absorb alcohol so much differently on the chance you were to relapse if you were to have RNY. 

I say this because of the struggle I have gone through with alcohol since having had RNY. I have been sober for over a year now, but it hasn't been easy. I sometimes wonder myself if things would have been different if I had had the lap band instead?

Melanie
Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/12/09 11:31 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..
Good Morning OH'ers.. IT'S FRIDAY!!

Today I am grateful..

That I only got one ticket yesterday..

That I am a man of my word..

That I have love to give..

For waking up today..

For the little thngs in life..

SONG OF THE WEEK

"HURT" BY JOHNNY CASH

I hurt myself today
To see if I still feel
I focus on the pain
The only thing that's real
The needle tears a hole
The old familiar sting
Try to kill it all away
But I remember everything

What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know
goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt

I wear this crown of thorns
Upon my liar's chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair
Beneath the stains of time
The feelings disappear
You are someone else
I am still right here

What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know
goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt

If I could start again
A million miles away
I would keep myself
I would find a way

MOVIE QUOTE OF THE WEEK..

Forgiveness is between them and the lord.. It is just my job to arrange the meeting.. Denzel Washington from Man of Honor..
Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
RHONDA FROM KY
on 3/12/09 11:17 am - ALEXANDRIA, KY
Topic: ~SPIRITUAL~ A DAY AT A TIME
03-12 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY

If we examine every disturbance we have, great or small, we'll find at the root of it some unhealthy dependency and its consequent unhealthy demand.  So let us, with God's help, continually surrender these crippling liabilities.  Then we can be set free to live and love.  We may then be able to Twelfth-Step ourselves, as well as others, into emotional sobriety.  DO I TRY TO CARRY THE MESSAGE OF THE PROGRAM?

TODAY I PRAY
May I first get my emotional and spiritual house in order before I seek to carry out serious commitments in human relationships.  May I look long and thoroughly at "dependency" -- upon alcohol or other drugs or upon other human beings -- and recognize it as the source of my unrest.  May I transfer my dependence to God, as I understand Him.

TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
I am God-dependent.



 

ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN by Robert Fulghum. 

(a guide for Global Leadership)

All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.

These are the things I learned:
  • Share everything.
  • Play fair.
  • Don't hit people.
  • Put things back where you found them.
  • Clean up your own mess.
  • Don't take things that aren't yours.
  • Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
  • Wash your hands before you eat.
  • Flush.
  • Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
  • Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
  • Take a nap every afternoon.
  • When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
  • Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
  • Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
  • And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk at about 3 o'clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin

Britt W.
on 3/12/09 8:57 am - Republic, MO
Topic: RE: agoraphobia?
hello there i am new to the board but not new to mental issues.  i have agoraphobia and it is not fun at all.  there are days i cant take my daughter out to play b/c i am to scared something might happen and there would be no one to help me as i freaked out.  medication has been a big help.  i am on 3 different things.  i know what you are going through just hang in there.


britt
Da Shrinking Dawg
Ramon

on 3/11/09 9:57 pm - Houston, TX
Topic: Grateful Post..
Happy Friday Eve.. Or if you are like me Happy Friday.. LOL  I am off tomorrow..

Today I am grateful..

For a good support group meeting last night..

For people in my life that really love me..

For lessons learned..

That I know that only God can judge me..

That anything that does not kill me only makes me stronger..
Ramon Lopez 
Co-Founder
 http://www.rydobesity.com 
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE 
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
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