devastated

 Im 3 months post op. I have lost 55 lbs and have felt great. My husband just walked out on us. He found another woman (much slimmer) I'm devastated. I don't even care about the weight loss anymore. I dont know what to do now.....

Why would you not care about the weight loss anymore?? Did you do this for yourself, or for him? I understand that you are going through the grieving process right now...but don't you DARE let that jerk dictate the rest of your life! You are too good for that, and he is obviously a POS that is undeserving of your love OR heartbreak. You just live your life for YOU and if you have children for THEM as well. You take that jerk for everything he is worth...because you OBVIOUSLY deserve it...and remember that Kharma is a you-know-what!! Take comfort it the fact that he will die a lonely (broke) old man

Please do me a favor and look up the song Stand Back Up by Sugarland and make sure you listen to the song and THEN Stand Back Up..

Here are the words to the song..

STAND BACK UP BY SUGARLAND

Go ahead and take your best shot,
Let 'er rip, give it all you've got,
I'm laid out on the floor, but I've been here before,
I may stumble, yeah I might fall,
Only human aren't we all?
I might lose my way, but hear me when I say,

I will stand back up,
You'll know just the moment when I've had enough,
Sometimes I'm afraid, and I don't feel that tough,
But I'll stand back up,

I've been beaten up and bruised,
I've been kicked right off my shoes,
Been down on my knees more times than you'd believe,
When the darkness tries to get me,
There's a light that just won't let me,
It might take my pride, and my tears may fill my eyes,
But I'll stand back up,

I've weathered all these storms,
But I just turn them into wind, so I can fly,
What don't kill you makes you stronger,
When I take my last breath,
That's when I'll just give up,

So, go ahead and take your best shot,
Let 'er rip, give it all you've got,
You might win this round but you can't keep me down,

'Cause I'll stand back up,
And you'll know just the moment when I've had enough,
Sometimes I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough,
But I'll stand back up,

You'll know just the moment when I've had enough,
Sometimes I'm afraid and I don't feel that tough,
But I'll stand back up.