~SPIRITUAL NOT RELIGIOUS~ A DAY AT A TIME
09/29 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY
In our first weeks or months in The Program, our shaky emotional condition sometimes affects our feelings toward old friends and family. For many of us, these relationships heal quickly in the intial stages of our recovery. For others, a time of "touchiness" seems to persist; now that we're no longer drinking or using other chemicals, we have to sort out our feelings about spouse, children, relatives, employer, fellow workers, and even neighbors. Experience in The Program over the years has taught that we should avoid making important decisions early in our recovery -- especially emotion-charged decisions about people. AM I BECOMING BETTER EQUIPPED TO RELATE MATURELY TO OTHER PEOPLE?
TODAY I PRAY
May God help me through the edginess, the confusion of re-feeling and re-thinking my relationships, the "getting-it-all-together" stages of my recovery. May I not rush into new relationships or new situations that demand an investment of my emotions -- not yet.
TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
No entangling alliances too soon.
In our first weeks or months in The Program, our shaky emotional condition sometimes affects our feelings toward old friends and family. For many of us, these relationships heal quickly in the intial stages of our recovery. For others, a time of "touchiness" seems to persist; now that we're no longer drinking or using other chemicals, we have to sort out our feelings about spouse, children, relatives, employer, fellow workers, and even neighbors. Experience in The Program over the years has taught that we should avoid making important decisions early in our recovery -- especially emotion-charged decisions about people. AM I BECOMING BETTER EQUIPPED TO RELATE MATURELY TO OTHER PEOPLE?
TODAY I PRAY
May God help me through the edginess, the confusion of re-feeling and re-thinking my relationships, the "getting-it-all-together" stages of my recovery. May I not rush into new relationships or new situations that demand an investment of my emotions -- not yet.
TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
No entangling alliances too soon.
It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end. ~Ursula K. LeGuin