~SPIRITUAL NOT RELIGIOUS~ A DAY AT A TIME
02/5 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY
If I am troubled, worried, exasperated or frustrated, do I tend to rationalize the situation and lay the blame on someone else? When I am in such a state, is my conversation punctuated with, "He did..., " "She said...," "They did.."? Or can I honestly admit that perhaps I'm at fault. My peace of mind depends on overcoming my negative attitudes and tendency toward rationalization. WILL I TRY, DAY BY DAY, TO BE RIGOROUSLY HONEST WITH MYSELF?
TODAY I PRAY
May I catch myself as I talk in the third person, "He did..." or "They promised..." or "She said she would..." and listen for the blaming that has become such a patter for me and preserves delusion. May I do a turnabout and face myself instead.
TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
Honesty is the only policy.
It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end. ~Ursula K. LeGuin