its me again...

No flaming .I am trying hard for real.I have always had a nervous issue with myself I guess I was self medicating with food...thats not an option because I get sick from eating fast or the wrong foods.I have been keeping myself busy .I work with my husband *****ally had major severe anxiety problems ..but he is in denial for years.My 19 year old moved out partly his fault for not following my rules but I really cannot condemn him since he sees his father pout cry whineand I give in...I pray every night to gove me strenghth ro stand up for me and my 16 old daughter and my 9 employees.we are sooo lucky we have a great company but MY HUSBANDS ADDICTION IS TO BUY epensive trucks and he cant soooo he is quite brutal to deal with.I pray every night.Ilove him he is really sweet but he only thinks about him himself and his money....how sad...I cannot sleep inless I drink...my absorbation levels arent good I have gone thorgh 3 sets of iron transfusions ...so meds are hard to find that really help me find relief....

Hi Laura!

As to the sleeping issue, there are over the counter things you can buy to help you sleep that are non-habit forming. I realize you need a major stress release, but alcohol may not be in your best interests or  the *best* choice to make for long term good health.

His anxiety issues need some professional counselling. I hope he's receptive to going! I think in some way, all men are alike. Mine loves new trucks, high tech toys and gps units. I can relate!

Marie