Need HELP fast - How to tell Tweens about my problem

Telbereth
on 5/5/08 10:11 am - SW , MO
Looking to make a drastic change by taking a 'vacation' with some counselors etc. [Forgive the crypticness on the message but someone at work has been snooping.] Have a tweenager and a younger non-tween. Trying to figure out the best way to let them know about my vacation plans.  The same message will not work for both, the older, who can't wait to be a 'teen" is much more mature than the other. I'm here to listen.
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RHONDA FROM KY
on 5/5/08 10:29 am - ALEXANDRIA, KY
sorry I have no experience here.. as I have no kids.  But.. I hope you get from vacation all rested and feeling like new

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin

Telbereth
on 5/5/08 10:36 am, edited 5/5/08 10:36 am - SW , MO
Thank you for the kind thoughts... Truthfully I don't really expect to come back much rested from vacation.  I hear they have a stair case that they keep running you up and down until finally it seems like you know each of those twelve steps as well as the back of your hand.
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marieh
on 5/5/08 9:35 pm - So. Easton, MA
Well, my "baby" is 25, but I was honest with her when I started my drying out. She was 3 at the time. She was also a more mature child. Be honest with the older one, and for the younger, tell them it's something your body gets sick from when you have it. Like being allergic in a way. Depending on their age, you can morph your explanation to what they can handle.  Good luck, Marie


 

        
PittsburghCutie
on 5/7/08 11:12 pm - Pittsburgh, PA
We have a saying in my vacation land--The elevator is broken, you should start taking the steps, the 12 steps. Heh.

I emailed you and I hope anything I said helps--I'm going to email you again because I didn't see this post until after I emailed the 1st time.

much love and respect-
Liz
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