Underlying Problems??
Many folks have told me that I won't be able to get my alcoholism in chec****il I "resolve whatever is the underlying issue that caused me to drink". All I can say is "Say What?" I have no clue what this issue might be and truthfully don't believe there is one for me. As opposed to many I was very fortunate and had a great childhood. Mom was my Den Mother, Dad became my Scout Master, I went on to be an Eagle Scout and traveled across the nation to backpack, canoe, or engage in other major activities [acutally met the then current President and the Queen Mum during one activity]. Played Varsity football and track, ski club and honor society. This is not meant as any bragging or puffery but just giving background. Obviously no abuse or molestation. My grandparents were alcoholics who were quite comfortable financially (Scotch drinkers) and lived hundreds of miles away, they never really had any impact in my life. Folks didn't drink except on social occasions and even then very moderately. So What the Hell Happened to Me? I remember being at one of my first parties in High School and I had 5 beers left of a 6 pack and some other guy had most of a pint of Southern Comfort, we swapped sips and immediately switched beverages with me enjoying the pint of SC. So my question is...Is there an underlying problem or do some folks become alcoholics just because?
Albert Schweitzer
My son dying. Broken family after my mom dies. My older sister.
I could go into detail and type forever, but I'm cool.
I'm 31 years old and haven't talked to my sister since thanksgiving because she cracked a fat joke at me, when I'm smaller than her now. I wouldn't even be so pissed, if she didn't do it in front of her kids and they start laughing.
Yea, that's ****** hilarious.
I know my underlying issues, and I still drink/drugs(not now, but recently)
The answer to your question, I'm a firm believer that we bring things upon ourselves. I'm not going to blame my alcoholic tendencies on underlying issues. I'm not going to blame my problems or this that or the other.
Does that make sense?
October, 1st, 2004-LapRNY
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