Melancholy

I am kind of melancholy today. My kids were here for dinner today, but one son had to go back to New York to work tonight. My younger son called me to invite me to join him and his girlfriend on a trip to New York to see my future daughter-in-law's play that is closing in a few weeks. I am broke and can't afford to go, so he offered to treat me. I should be thrilled, but I am ashamed of my financial dilemma, and wanting to kick myself silly. Hugs, Trish

It is so hard when you have to deny something due to money. For years, i couldn't do many things wit my sons because all of my money went to pay their child support. I think that was one factor that kept me on anti-depressants for so many years. Be gentle with yourself. It is only money. Realize the love you received from your child whether you accept or not. Aime

Trish, How fortunate you are to have a child who wants to treat you to the trip. I hope you can see what a gift that is that he wants to be with you and money is not his issue. You are a single woman building a life. How wonderful he can appreciate that and want to give you a nice gift. Glass is half full! Be sure you let him know how much that means to you even if you cannot afford to take time away from work for money reasons. If he does not feel rejected there will be future invitations. Hugs, Laurie

Oh Honey...GO! This is just what the doctor ordered! You will LOVE New York! I just discovered it a few weeks ago, and now I have two more trips planned. And you can get the train. If you want to stay in a cheap hotel...try the Hotel Edson. IF you have AAA you can get an even bigger discount. Go to New York and have a ball. You will LOVE it there. Just my thoughts.. DarDar