Just curious

I still don't know...is this board moderated? NOBODY was on board when I started positng and I haven't a clue. BTW, thanks everyone for jumping in. I felt like I was dancing by myself there at first, but I need this and am so grateful to you for making it happen. Vicki

I was wondering the same thing about moderators. I am glad that you are all here, and that I have a place to talk about recovery from alcoholism. I can't talk WLS in an AA meeting, because they would look at me like I was crazy. This should be a safe place to explore recovery options. Hugs, Trish

nothing wrong with AA but that is why I go to NA. It has a boader focus. Altho I do not share regularly about it many of the recovering addicts I fellowship with are drug free but continue to struggle with substitution. Food is one many relate with. I always feel comfortable if I need to share on the topic. Laurie

The same is true for AA with the substitution factor. What is sad is when I was in both AA and OA and was told by an old timer in AA that I should not worry about the food because it would take care of itself. I gained over 100 pounds with my sobriety. I have had AA sponsor who do have eating issues, and are open about it with me. The 12th step is about the substitution. "Practicing these principles in all our affairs" means I have to apply the steps and the lifestyle of AA to all of my behavior, and be keenly aware of other addictive possibilities, which for me include sex, food, and shopping. I tried going to NA for the same reason you do. I found myself feeling more comfortable in AA. There are many addicts in AA who simply talk AA talk, but were cross-addicted and are very active in AA as "alcoholics." They respect the traditions, and privately, or when they tell their stories, will share about the drugs. Each person has to find their niche. Mine is in AA. Yours is in NA. Both are great for what they do, help suffering people find freedom from drugs and alcohol. When I do groups with the dually diagnosed patients I encourage them to find the group they are most comfortable with, that they relate to the most. As long as they find a home group, and a sponsor, they have hope of achieving long term sobriety/clean time. Without either, their chances are less than average. Sorry to babble. I am just waking up. Hugs, Trish

I am so grateful you were posting away everyday when I joined. Thank you! Laurie