Oh oh..they atre changing, or is it me?

I am very disappointed. I went to my home group in California. People I had known for over ten years were so uncomfortable being where I am compare to 370. Some walked past me and refused to acknowledge me. The women were pissed, the men were salivating. Damn it! This was my safe place. How can they go through everything with me 11 yrs, tears, triumphs, for God's sake, my kids were crawling when I brought them in (well, not Zoe...she wasn't old enough)and they have watched us all grow. They know my hubby. I can't believe some of these guys who never knew I existed are hitting on me. I had a call 5 days ago from a guy, famous musician, who was in town for a convention and wanted to get together. NOT!!!!!! OK, I have heard that there are sharks in every 12 step group. Just haven't experienced it until now. What a twist. Some one who knows EVERYTHING about you, hitting on you,. Is it a compliment, or taking advantage? I am not flattered. Vicki

I think they call it 13th stepping. Boy meets girl on 12 step campus. Sucks, because I think about how if they would hit on someone they knew for a while in recovery, would they do that to a newbie who is barely sober? My rule, for me, is I won't even look at the men in the rooms. Sorry these people are so fickle as to treat you this way. Hugs, Trish

Some are sicker than others. Actually I think you should be flattered but that does not mean act on it! LOL Laurie