Guys, do you have this problem?

Oxford Comma Hag
on 2/8/17 4:56 pm

Forum Nannying rarely ends well, but since you asked...

This post was just flat-out nasty after some of the other posts the OP has made, and I have a fairly bawdy sense of humor. I cannot speak for anyone else, but it induced a full-body dry heave in me. It reminded me unpleasantly of the many times I have dealt with a coworker who made 'jokes' that he knew were way over the line and did it just so he could watch his female coworkers squirm because he got his rocks off on it and knew he wouldn't be called out, or the one who would 'accidentally' brush up against me to touch my breast or butt.

The response he then gave about the size of his genitals did not help his case, not to mention the 'sorry, not sorry' apology.

 

 

I fight badgers with spoons.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255

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Travelher
on 2/9/17 4:14 am
Revision on 10/04/16

And you equating him with sexual predators because he has made one post about being creative in the bedroom with his wife and one complaining about his tube testicles is way more offensive to me than anything he could have said.   

You owe him an apology, not the other way around. 

Band-RNY revision age 50 5'4" HW 260 SW: 244 (bf healthy range 23-35%) bf 23.7% (at 137lbs) cw range 135-138.lbl with butt lift and mastoplexy March 23, 2018...2.5lbs removed.

Pre-op-16lbs (size 18/20...244) M1-16lbs (size 18...228) M2-15.6lbs (size 16/18...212.4) M3-10lbs (size 16..202.4) M4-11.4lbs (size 14...191) M5-10.8lbs (size 12...180.2) M6-8.4 (size 8/10...171.8) M7-6.4 (size 8...165.4 lbs) M8-11.6 (size 6...153.8) M9-5.6 (size 4/6...148.2) M10-5.8 (size 4....142.4) M11-4 (size 2/4...138.4) Surgiversary -1 (size 2/4...137.4) M13-2.6 (size 2/4...134.8) M14 (size 2/4...134.8) M15 (size 2...135) M16 (size 2...131.4) M17 (size 2...135) M18 (size 2...135) M19 (size 2...138) M20 (size 2...135) M21 (size 2...138)

Oxford Comma Hag
on 2/9/17 5:14 am

Oh, no. I most certainly DO NOT owe him an apology. And to correct your assumption, I didn't ask him for one. 

You think whatever you want about how he was so maligned. His nasty little references are not innocent; his protestations were insincere. 

I don't care if you are offended. You lot who are implying we are mean cows and out of line should learn the lay of the land on OH. That crap doesn't go on the main boards, and I would call out a woman who posted similar ****

 

I fight badgers with spoons.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255

Suicidepreventionlifeline.org

Travelher
on 2/9/17 5:52 am, edited 2/8/17 9:53 pm
Revision on 10/04/16

This wins the most ironic post of the day award talking about people making assumptions about you and implying things you don't believe are true...You made assumptions about him based on two posts....I've read hundreds of his.  He does not have an insincere bone in his body.   you can create whatever "alternative facts" you want to justify your right-fighting, that doesn't make them true....

Wow, just wow....

Band-RNY revision age 50 5'4" HW 260 SW: 244 (bf healthy range 23-35%) bf 23.7% (at 137lbs) cw range 135-138.lbl with butt lift and mastoplexy March 23, 2018...2.5lbs removed.

Pre-op-16lbs (size 18/20...244) M1-16lbs (size 18...228) M2-15.6lbs (size 16/18...212.4) M3-10lbs (size 16..202.4) M4-11.4lbs (size 14...191) M5-10.8lbs (size 12...180.2) M6-8.4 (size 8/10...171.8) M7-6.4 (size 8...165.4 lbs) M8-11.6 (size 6...153.8) M9-5.6 (size 4/6...148.2) M10-5.8 (size 4....142.4) M11-4 (size 2/4...138.4) Surgiversary -1 (size 2/4...137.4) M13-2.6 (size 2/4...134.8) M14 (size 2/4...134.8) M15 (size 2...135) M16 (size 2...131.4) M17 (size 2...135) M18 (size 2...135) M19 (size 2...138) M20 (size 2...135) M21 (size 2...138)

Rachel B.
on 2/9/17 6:23 pm - Tucson, AZ
VSG on 08/11/08 with

There's a reason she's called 'hag'...

"...This one a long time have I watched. All his life has he looked away, to the future, to the horizon. Never his mind on where he was. What he was doing..."

Rachel, PMHNP-BC

HW-271 SW-260 LW(2009)-144 ~ Retread: HW-241 CW-190 GW-150


seattledeb
on 2/10/17 4:23 pm

Here it's an earned and respected word.

 

Highfunctioningfatman
on 2/8/17 6:08 pm
VSG on 08/29/16

 I have just requested to have this thread either moved to the men's section or closed as the website sees fit.

DubfromBP
on 2/9/17 2:19 am
VSG on 10/13/15
On February 9, 2017 at 2:08 AM Pacific Time, Highfunctioningfatman wrote:

 I have just requested to have this thread either moved to the men's section or closed as the website sees fit.

Damn, Boss......this thread has taken an unforeseen turn.....and not one that you've done wrong in.

 

Hang in there....all will be well.

 

I got your point.....and your posts almost always bring to laughter.

 

Brother, I NEED that laughter, too.

 

It's good for the soul.

 

I'm sorry if folks got wrapped around the axle over what was a post intended for males or perhaps even Bruce Jenner types......you know....folks with personal knowledge of low hanging fruit.

 

I for one, am proud to know you and have been a fan of watching your take on things as you move through the post op stages and post up your experiences and observations.

You are a kindred spirit who sees the humor in daily life and doesn't let it pass idly by.

There is so much laughter to be had at ourselves and our new findings.   I spent an extra hour at work yesterday just to joke around with another kindred spirit who is a friend and coworker.  My workday was ending and his work night was beginning.  We had some great laughs and it was good for us both.

No worries, here.

 

Life is good, folks.....loosen up and live longer.  

Live, love and make the most out of what your surgeon has done for you...........live your life without excuses and without regrets.

(deactivated member)
on 2/9/17 4:03 am, edited 2/8/17 8:03 pm
VSG on 10/11/16

If nothing else, this thread has given me candidates for the block button. If we can't laugh about things, we will be in serious trouble - probably from being too serious. 

Oxford Comma Hag
on 2/9/17 5:20 am

By all means, block away. Super handy little button, eh?

The OP would have gone a long way to help his cause had he not thrown fuel on the fire by making additional comments about his genitals, then giving a half-passed 'apology'.

 

 

I fight badgers with spoons.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255

Suicidepreventionlifeline.org

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