Loose skin and dating/sex

I'm 9 mos out and I've lost 218lbs, down from 567. I now weigh 349.
I'm ecstatic.

But loose skin is becoming a problem and I'm starting to date. I bought a compression shirt to wear and everyone I've dated knows about the surgery.
I'm very self concious about it.

I'm just worried about things going further. I don't want to suffocate her with a avalanche of loose skin.

How do you guys deal with this?

Thanks,

Bill

Let her learn the joys of "cowgirl" and "doggie" style.  

 

"Cowgirl"? I'll have to remember that.

I think I'm just embarrased by the loose skin and I would imagine it turns off a lot of women.

With cowgirl she is on top so your loose skin is not an issue.  Doggie, no explanation necessary, or at least I hope not.

Remember while the female is still "visual" they don't put near the emphasis on looks that males do.  If they did none of us would ever get past first base if we even got to bat!  The ladies are more about the emotional connection with you than just the physical part. 

When in the throws of passion you start hearing what sounds like "applause" it may be your deflated dermis slapping against itself. 

I thought that "applause" was part of a Standing O!!

A standing O? At my age, I need to lie down, before, during and after.

ROFL 

Mike,
I noticed that the emoticon in you message is on its side as if it had to lie down. It's not doing what I think it is, is it? The twisting from side to side. The gasping mount. Flailing arms. Just saying...