getting busy and other euphanisms

BlakeH
on 10/26/11 1:41 pm - Canada

I wish I could find the search engine for this question but how long after surgery should one wait before having Sex. Things got really busy (meaning doing many things in a rush) before the surgery but now we are a week post surgery, I feel great and am ready to get busy (the other meaning) again.

But I don't want to test the waters and break anything, or not work at all, or have something happen that will screw up the moment. So how long do you wait before 'doing the deed'?

Sam LifeNerd
on 10/27/11 1:30 am

My paperwork said 3 weeks!! (Next visit back to the doctor for followup) You do not want to tear anything and let those stomach muscles heal!

Don 1962
on 10/27/11 3:46 am

RNY on 04/07/08

Two weeks is the norm and if you begin to hurt STOP!

If you are worried about putting too much strain on your abdomen have her lay on the bed with her tuckus right at the edge so you can stand up for your part of the event.

Never, and I mean NEVER, trust a fart!!

kenhud1
on 10/28/11 12:10 am - Houston, TX

RNY on 05/17/10

Your doctor didn't tell you?? After surgery, you can never have sex again. -- lol

KenHud
RNY 5/17/10 highest: 407 lb - maintaining a loss of 200+ pounds and enjoying life

Michael P.
on 10/28/11 1:02 am

RNY on 02/07/11

ROFL

9/9/09: Highest Weight: 506.5 lbs 9/20/10: Tufts Start Weight: 492.4 lbs
2/7/11: Surgery Wt: 462.5 lbs. 9/16/12: Current Weight: 287.8 lbs.
4/15/12: First 5K - BAA 5K - PR 35:49