need some advice
That's odd .. not like I have ever been in that situation (
), but I thought I read that when women are pregunta their libido goes way up, due to all the hormones floating around .. 
), but I thought I read that when women are pregunta their libido goes way up, due to all the hormones floating around .. Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "
HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )
Different women react differently. There typically is a point where the hormones kick in and it is party time but for how long who knows.
Wish I could promise it gets better but well I won't lie and simply say sometimes it does.
Remember though there are bigger issues and if this is your first child, life as you knew it is pretty much over for a while as the baby will become the primary focus for a looong time.
Best advice is to talk to her about it.
Good Luck
Wish I could promise it gets better but well I won't lie and simply say sometimes it does.
Remember though there are bigger issues and if this is your first child, life as you knew it is pretty much over for a while as the baby will become the primary focus for a looong time.
Best advice is to talk to her about it.
Good Luck
Paul C.
First 5K 9/27/20 46:32 - 11 weeks post op (PR 28:55 8/15/11)
First 10K 7/04/2011 1:03 First 15K 9/18/2011 1:37
First Half Marathon 10/02/2011 2:27:44 (PR 2:24:35)
First Half Ironman 9/30/12 7:32:04
First 5K 9/27/20 46:32 - 11 weeks post op (PR 28:55 8/15/11)
First 10K 7/04/2011 1:03 First 15K 9/18/2011 1:37
First Half Marathon 10/02/2011 2:27:44 (PR 2:24:35)
First Half Ironman 9/30/12 7:32:04
During pregnancy, her hormones will be all over the place. We've had three kids, and it was different with each one.
Sometimes, she was interested, and other times not, with little rhyme or reason... Not her doing, and she will still love you just as much, but may not be in the mood as readily (or as often) as before. Cut her some slack, and open up a dialog with her about it. Tell her you're still interested, but don't want to be a pest, so you need for her to give you a sign when she's in the mood. We worked out a silly way for her to let me know when she was ready, without having to come right out and say so... Come up with your own version - it may help.
Remember how you felt at your biggest? That's what she's feeling as she gets bigger and her belly swells and she can't go fiveminutes without peeing... She needs to hear that you love her and that you still think she's sexy, even as she grows ever more "pregnant" with your child. The funny thing is, your own hormones respond to her pregnancy, and you will catch yourself marveling at how perfectly made her body is for having a baby. When that baby starts to move, kick, etc, you'll start to even feel a little jealous that she gets to experience those feelings and you don't...
Of course, during delivery, you'll be thanking your lucky stars that it's not you having to deliver that humongazoid "thing" through sensitive parts of your anatomy! If we men had to go through the delivery process, there would be darn few babies born... Our wives are so much stronger in that regard than we are -- God really knew what he was doing when he decided that the females would carry the babies!
Sometimes, she was interested, and other times not, with little rhyme or reason... Not her doing, and she will still love you just as much, but may not be in the mood as readily (or as often) as before. Cut her some slack, and open up a dialog with her about it. Tell her you're still interested, but don't want to be a pest, so you need for her to give you a sign when she's in the mood. We worked out a silly way for her to let me know when she was ready, without having to come right out and say so... Come up with your own version - it may help.
Remember how you felt at your biggest? That's what she's feeling as she gets bigger and her belly swells and she can't go fiveminutes without peeing... She needs to hear that you love her and that you still think she's sexy, even as she grows ever more "pregnant" with your child. The funny thing is, your own hormones respond to her pregnancy, and you will catch yourself marveling at how perfectly made her body is for having a baby. When that baby starts to move, kick, etc, you'll start to even feel a little jealous that she gets to experience those feelings and you don't...
Of course, during delivery, you'll be thanking your lucky stars that it's not you having to deliver that humongazoid "thing" through sensitive parts of your anatomy! If we men had to go through the delivery process, there would be darn few babies born... Our wives are so much stronger in that regard than we are -- God really knew what he was doing when he decided that the females would carry the babies!
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