Telling dates about WLS

Juan V.
on 2/15/11 3:54 am - LA
Hmm, good point. Maybe structuring your 1st dates so that they don't focus on a meal. It would take a little creativity, but something else where you don't have to sit and eat a full meal together. I can't dance, so I don't take my 1st dates dancing. That kind of thing. Plus, with eating no longer a focus it would give you the chance to bring the subject up on your own terms instead of it becoming the elephant in the room like you said. 
Beam me up Scottie
on 2/15/11 11:37 am
Don't meet your dates for dinner, meet them the first time for coffee or some non-food related thing. I don't think it's something I would talk about on the first 2 or 3 dates.

Scott
KevinW
on 2/18/11 3:24 am - Canada
I recently went out on a date with someone who knew me before my surgery.
When asked about it...I told about my WLS. They were quite interested.
I finished off by saying "I'm a pretty cheap date! I don't drink and I can't eat very much!!" We had a good laugh!
We have since gone out several times and things are going well.
        
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