Telling dates about WLS
Hmm, good point. Maybe structuring your 1st dates so that they don't focus on a meal. It would take a little creativity, but something else where you don't have to sit and eat a full meal together. I can't dance, so I don't take my 1st dates dancing. That kind of thing. Plus, with eating no longer a focus it would give you the chance to bring the subject up on your own terms instead of it becoming the elephant in the room like you said.
I recently went out on a date with someone who knew me before my surgery.
When asked about it...I told about my WLS. They were quite interested.
I finished off by saying "I'm a pretty cheap date! I don't drink and I can't eat very much!!" We had a good laugh!
We have since gone out several times and things are going well.
When asked about it...I told about my WLS. They were quite interested.
I finished off by saying "I'm a pretty cheap date! I don't drink and I can't eat very much!!" We had a good laugh!
We have since gone out several times and things are going well.