when will i change

I just have  a few questions how will the wls affect my sex drive how long before i can do it again and how long before i will see a change down below if you know what i mean any advice would be helpful

I don't discuss sex online.  However, the general observences posted to this forum are that you appear to get larger as you lose weight.  Most people believe the appearance of having a larger penis is due to having less fat hanging over it or encompassing it. 

I can understand how you would like to be more intimate with your wife.  I was wondering if your doctor is advising you to restrain from sexual activity due to your heart problem.  There are men on this forum who have had heart problems.  I hope they will also respond to you.

thanks got the ok on my heart everything is fine there

I realized last night that I gave you a lame answer.  The best place to seek the info you want is to a specialized Forum called Sex Before and After Weight Loss Surgery.  Look over it first and then post your question.  The people who post there regularly ( I know someone who does) respond to humorous posts in a humorous way and usually to serious ones in a serious way.  However, if you ask a serious question and don't get the type response you want, simply repost and let them know that this is a serious question for you.

For some people, this is the only Forum they use, so they do tend to go off topic.  But, again, they have a broad spectrum of regulars and many other occasional posters.

Please continue to post on the Men's Forum.

Howdy neighbor!

Bob nailed with his answer.  As you lose the fat around your junk it begins to appear larger.  According to Dr. Oz it is an inch for your first 35 pounds.  Your mileage after that may vary!  WLS male patients are the anamaly to the rule about "small hands, small feet...."

Link to the sex board:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/sex_before_and_after_wls/

Don't worry.  I was just discussing this with my wife this morning telling her, I'VE GOT MY MOJO BACK!!! 

I'm 6 days post op and I started getting the libido started cranking back up yesterday. And this is from a 62 year old fat man.

I also like what I'm reading about gaining some lengh as the weight comes off. It would be great to have the size back that I had when I was in my 20's.

As far as size like everyone has said you it is an apperance in gain.  You won't grow what you don't have.  Look at it like this if you have a 6 foot tree and you bury it in a foot of dirt it appears to be 5 feet tall, but when buried in 3 feet of dirt it appears only 3 feet.

As for getting your groove back well everyone is different.  I was ready the day after but waited until day 3.

Thanks for all the advice.