From quick shot to never ending marathon....

jiffyj
on 7/24/10 10:42 pm - Rochester, NY
What's up fellas? 

Ok, probably tmi, but before the surgery, when i was 361 pounds, i'll admit i was a quick shot in the bedroom.  I mean i had to concentrate and work HARD not to ****** within 5 minutes of sex....it was damn near uncontrollable...no stamina whatsoever.  Very sad, lol.  But i knew with weight loss that my stamina would increase and i'd be able to eventually last longer. 

What i hadn't planned on is the situation doing a complete 180.  I mean, there are times now when it feels like I can go on for hours and hours without ever coming near ***********  Sometimes thats a good thing, and other times that's f*cking annoying!  It's not like the sex is bad, its actually pretty damn great, but it just takes forever for me to finish the marathon so to speak.

Anyone else experience this after WLS?  Any suggestions on how to control this? 
Highest Weight : 361 (pre-op diet)  |    Surgery Weight : 311    |   Current Weight : 181
Don 1962
on 7/24/10 11:31 pm
Could it be your having sex too many times a day and the last one is the, pardon the pun, hardest one to get off?  

Is your partner complaining about your new found endurance?  Have you tried changing positions?  I know I can go for some time with one or the other of us on top but it takes some good ol' "doggie" to cross the finish line!



Never, and I mean NEVER, trust a fart!! 


sjbob
on 7/25/10 2:44 am - Willingboro, NJ
I suggest that you pose this particular question on the Sex Before and After WLS Forum.  If you are straightforward with your question, they will treat you in kind.  On the other hand, if you post in jest, they can have a good time with it also.  I suggest just cross-posting without the "what's up fellas?'
cowboy4life
on 7/31/10 9:44 am - Laplace, LA
My brother, I know what you mean.  85 pounds later, I am in the same boat.  Just enjoy the ride.  Change positions, that's what I do.  And a little imagination of Halle Berry wouldn't hurt either.
    
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