On the Fence
Nick
I was supposed to have RNY on July 22, but had some stomach problems and that was the straw that broke the camels back. So now my lap band is scheduled for Sept 30. I am not against the RNY, I just want to try the least invasive procedure first.
Regards,
Matt
If you are too "nervous" to go for a full DS, I would suggest getting the V.S.G. rather than the band ... The V.S.G. is less problematic, you don't have to mess with "fills", and has greater weight loss. That may be all you need to get to normal weight .. If not, then you can see about having the "switch" part of the DS added by a DS surgeon later on, as above. There are some relatively inexpensive VSG surgeons just south of the Texas border in Mexico that give top notch service to U.S. patients.
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Good luck on whatever you decide to do ..
Frank talk about the DS / "All I ever wanted to be was thin, like that Rolling Stones dude ... "
HW/461 LW/251 GW/189 CW/274 (yep, a DS semi-failure - it happens :-( )
**** happens dude. I was like you, I pondered and tossed and turned the decision over and over and over. On my surgical date, the last thing I remember telling the doctor was, 'I'm scared!' And he said, 'everything will be just fine!' I woke up a month later in surgical icu and spent another 4 months off and on over a period of 10 months in icu. The doc accidently cut the colon and my bowels flowed into my inner cavity. They of course had to open me up from Lap form, and over the last year and half I've healed and lost weight. Was it worth it to me, NO. Would I do it again, No. You have to understand that this surgery is not a miracle cure for obesity, when you come out - you'll need to change your diet totally and stick with it. I still probably eat just 1000 or 1250 calories a day, mostly in protein, which causes gout in me. Every ache and pain will cause you distress in thinking something else is going wrong. Then there's the plastics, if you don't adopt for plastics then you'll have to live with your skin sagging and resembling an old man, bruising easily, and then some. I'm a downer, yes, I was one of those 20,000 to one shots, but now I listen carefully to those who have had rny, and I find none over the 2 year mark that doesn't suffer from something because of it. Be prepared to buck up. I have had friends do well on the lap band, and friends to not do well. It's a chance you have to take! I don't want to scare you, this is my experience. I was 6'0" tall and weighed 388, now I'm at 235, after a low of 190.
Well I do own 9 handguns and have pick them up lately thinking of a faster way to lose than RNY. RNY does not look all that bad when compared to the other. Yes you are a downer, sorry for your loss and agrivation. I will chose which way after I have my consult on 1 Sep 09. Tricare my healthcare provider will not pay for the Sleeve.
Here is what they cover Gastric bypass, gastric stapling, or gastroplasty, to include laparoscopic surgical procedures for gastric bypass and gastric stapling, and vertical banded gastroplasty are covered by TRICARE.
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I'm one of the lucky ones that didn't take a bit of pain meds once I left the hospital and my only complication has been an incision that seeped for about six weeks. Open surgeries are far more risky.
Good luck to you in the decision-making process.