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Damn Paul you have brought alot of this on yourself. Here are a few things I have learned in my life
1. It doesn't cost a damn thing to be nice. So I am always nice even if I don't agree with or like the person.
2. Turn the other cheek, 2 wrongs do not make a right.
3. People tend to treat you as you treat them.... see # 1
4. Don't stir the chit pot it just creates a stench.
Man up take responsibilty for your actions and make amends where possible. It is never too late to make a change.