Don't (Do?) Stand So Close to Me.

funny story, i've been getting some compliments lately from women too but this one killed me. i was walking from the car to the drug store and this car rounds the corner and screetches to a halt. two gay guys stare at me and call me over. well, i'm walking right towards them anyway and the driver kind of stammers and asks, are you italian? wtf? so i say no and he's trying to measure me and see if i bite so we have a tiny converstion. funny, i get asked if i'm italian or mexican all the time. well, at my age i'll take anything as a compliment.....lol. i lived in hollywood for eight years and got hit on by every concievable sexually oriented person in the world! i'll tell ya, i had to hots for this one girl only to find she was an imposter! only in LA huh (or san fran as was pointed out).

now i'll take flattery from any source. Dx is right, when you get to our age, it stops. i'm just happy someone stopped to admire. so i say enjoy those flirtations while they last. what you do about it is up to you but i guess you know that by now. just wanted to tell a story to let you know i still got it, to some degree........carbonblob

OK, so I'm down about 65 lbs. since I started this - 30 since my surgery 24 days ago. At what weight, or poundage lost, can I anticipate all the hotties, young or old, starting to throw themselves at me, while begging for a shot of my manhood?  Just wondering cause I want to get a prescription of Viagra or Cialis from my PCP so I can be prepared!! BwaHahahahahahaha!!!!!    

You probably have nothing to worry about being in America. Remember, over there Dave is an exotic, he probably gets as much attention as James Bond would over here.

I have a friend who was traveling around South America who was about 6'2, 200lbs, blue eyes, very average looking. He was walking through a public area and realized women were literally turning around to stare at him. He's thinking he has toilet paper stuck to his shoe or something but then someone tells him it's because he's over 6' tall and white. He's like some sort of exotic Adonis down here. Here in the states he pulls 5's on a scale of 1-10, his wife is very average, but over there he was a hot commodity. I hear similar stories all of the time from friends traveling in South America or Japan, depends on where you're at though as you wouldn't have nearly those results in Western Europe.

Dave - I talk a good **** but here is what I really do:   flirt a little, turn her down.... and then beat off like a spider monkey - thinking about what "could have been".

Hi Guys,

Thanks so much for your help. Really great and helpful responses. Sorry this keeps happening, but events at work keep popping up (not only the events we've been talking about! Actual work). We have visitation day with high school students coming and I'm doing two demo lessons: Eric Clapton English on the guitar and another of English from a Japanese animation movie, "Castles in the Sky" - a Disney translated movie.

Will post back as I get time. In the mean time, I can see what the writing on the wall. They are probably going to be sort of miffed because I didn't tell them I was married. I'm sure they know I'm at least middle age. Go figure! Got to blame the guy always!

Will respond soon.

Thanks so much,

Dave

Dave, It's great for the ego and a curse at the same time. Mine are not 18 year old girls but 30-40ish women in my hiking group. Some have become friends once they find out I have been married for 28 years and others seemed even more interested in me. I have a lot of fun flirting with them and I have had a few close calls out on the trails. Susan told me a long time ago that I would never have to worry about splitting up our assets because she would just kill me and that would be the end of it.  As temping as all these hot young ladies may be you have to ask yourself if it worth throwing away all the years of love and devotion you have with your wife. Remember she is the one that loved you before you lost all that weight and became the stud you are today.  Just remember that somewhere is a dad your age that will be really pissed that you are bonking his little princess. Good Luck, Tim

ve Hi Dave,  If you can keep love and ***** separate then there is not a problem, also you have to be able to look the person you love in the eye and lie your ass off and not feel guilty about it or she will be able to read you like a book, kind of like playing poker, also you have to be able to keep your lies straight If you can do all of these then you have nothing to worry about.  Just what I hear. pan head

Ah....hmm....what Tim said. Period! Jim