The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women
Wow, that's a tough one. I think there is something to "not being too much in need" of finding one. Easier said than done, but I remember at some point in my early 20's changing from that standpoint of "I absolutely have to have her," to "I'll be fine without her (or any other person) and there will be many more." Once a guy truly convinces himself of this and that he deserves lots of chicks, I think there will be an abundance. I found this to be true not only in Japan, but in the US as well
I go really light on anything material. If she's really interested she'll pay half the bill.
One thing I learned early on. If they really like you, they will call YOU. They will ask You out. They'll bring YOU presents.
All that said, I think you do have to work out and get in good shape, if you have the bod they will line up and I think just about any guy can get there.
Best Wishes,
Dave



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