Chick****ting On Me

it surely is great, eh? while my own life has changed dramatically, I never ever thought I'd get those stares and MMMMMs...either! makes me think - makes me KNOW that I should'a done my WLS like 20 years ago! too too too long fat & on the couch instead of in the game.... life is great, eh - so enjoy TazRN - beat that chest and make em pine! JIm

You're much more fortunate than me. The first couple of people hitting on me were gay guys. I've had enough women hit on me that it's all evened out by now.

Whenever I've been hit on by a dude I'm all like "cool, somebody thinks I'm hot". I'll take that positive attention whenever I get it. Hell, I've gotten a few compliments over the 15 or so lbs I've lost since starting my pre-op diet.

Funny thing about that ..  one of the guys who got hit on in that thread by one of the gal OHers has "bear" in his username  --   She posted to him, "I've always liked big cuddly bears" ..    The dude posted back, "yeah, my b/f does too" ..     &:-x)   !

Well... if the chicks are hitting on you that much, what's a guy to do? Hey! A friendly little suck-job never hurt anyone 

Congrats on the hit up....I know, me too. I get hit up often and women will take a second look at me. It's fun because I never had that attention before WLS. I just smile and move on. I love my wife.

It's probably just my imagination but I'm feeling a lot more smiles and flattering looks from the opposite sex too. I got similar comments from ladies at work that if I wasn't married they would do all kinds of things to me! I haven't heard stuff like that for a long time.

Even the parking attendant at the airport the other day looked up at me and then had this big old smile and then started giving me the goo-goo eye stare. At first I was like what's wrong with this lady, why isn't she just giving me my change, then I realized she might just be "admiring" me...lol. So I gave in a bit and started up some small talk. She was as giddy as a 3rd-grader.

Thanks for all of the comments about the situation.  I just can't say enough great things about how surgery and my hard work and determination have paid off.  As they say, life is ******g great. Taz

I know what you're saying, man. I had an 18 year old grad my pecs (pectorals, not pecker) right in sight of a female coworker.  I'm just trying not to get in touch with reality here!