No longer a (re-established)Virgin!

Well guys, I took your advice and I did it! (back story...wife left 6 months ago, no sex for the last couple years of marriage, blah, blah, blah) anyway, I posted not too long ago about getting back into the dating scene and I was supported here by all my friends about what to do. Following your guys advice I started checking out internet dating and going to night clubs and just being myself(now that I remember who I was and who I am now) It worked! Regardless that it was a friend of mine that has been right under my nose(no pun intended, haha) that seemed to be interested in me and doesnt want a relationship to go beyond friends(with benefits!) We had some drinks and a lot of laughs, went back to my place as usual and jus****ched movies etc. Had some more drinks, laid in my bed passing out from too much fun, started to get close and things happened! I am glad I told her all I needed was for a girl to make the first move because thats what she did. One touch and it was ON!(or up I guess I should say, lol) Well, it still works and was quite enjoyable, lasted longer than both of us expected! Now I know that doing this with a friend can get kind of ...Hmmm...um, sticky(lol) but being an adult I think I can handle it. Thanks for all your advice!

That's GREAT news Ben  Now, I hate to break the news to you..... but unless you two are about 99.9% luckier than most **** buddies, the "friendship's" days are numbered.  Either she's gonna get her hooks in you, or you keep playing the field.  I recommend the latter -as you got a lot more tail to nail before you quit the ***** posse  The good news is that you get to keep tappin' that ass until she feels ballsy enough to put you on the spot 

Baja, that is why I like reading your post - straight forward, no ***** footing around as they say.  You just lay it out there like a man should do.   I loved this piece of advice = "The good news is that you get to keep tappin' that ass until she feels ballsy enough to put you on the spot  ".   So true my friend - I couldn't have said it any better.  Enjoy it while you can Ben.   Taz

So.....uhhh......is your hand still talking to you?

I hear you about her tryin to corner me, but she knows that there is no way I am getting back into a relationship what so ever! If she cannot keep her emotions in check then I guess we will just have to cut it loose? Its wierd how I am looking at woman a different way than before, I guess I have realized I actually am single, wooohoooo! By the way, my hand told me it understands but doesnt want to be counted out, hahaha! Thanks for the advice and laughs guys...keep'em coming!

Now that you're back in the game you may want to brush up on your ladder theory.

http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html

What an eye opener the master ladder is! Now the game can really start