I need some advice badly

Hello Ben... Seems like you are getting some good advice here...something that I have noticed....the rules have changed.....I don;t know if it for the good or bad..but the rules have changed... The girls that go...."I don;t even kiss till the third date."...they end up crying on Oprah or Dr Phil... You know me...I'm sneaky...I think I would play it up...the re-estabilished virginity....be a little shy..and see how fast they get a "Flip-top head" that is if you just wanna get some...play it up every night... Play hard and play safe

Looks like you live in California. Hell I watch a lot of TV and best I can tell, every woman out there is a tramp.  If I can believe what I'm seeing on Desperate Housewives, your virginity is Dead Man Walking as I type.

hi every one and i might be able to help im young and just divorced in january so i kinda know what your feeling i started dating again about two weeks ago and im seeing 4 different woman and ive been very honest and up front im looking for friends first of all and some bennies second lol and its worked really well the honesty thing i stared with myspace search and then went out with a friend to the bar and all i did was be my honest sweet self reguardless of what is said woman still love a guy who will hold the door for them and that sweet sh*t  also remember the next girl you sleep with doesnt have to be your next wife so as long as she is not so ugly you wont tell a buddie about it sleep with her and get the first time over cause its a bit of pressure if its been awhile had been two months for me and i just went out found a girl who was cute and cool to hang out with next thing i knew i was in bed with her and we talk every couple days but we are just good friends so carrie a few condoms in the jacket or glove box of the car and just put your self  out there like your part of the local grociery store weekly speacial and remember confadance is attractive i havent had my surgery yet and ive lost 60 bls i still weigh 307 but i carry myself high and go for it every time what do you got to loose hope this helps if you have any questions feel free to email me or pm if  i can help i certainly will p.s porn is a good friend to lol

I can assure you that, in this case, television has painted a true portrait of the vast majority of the female species out West.  Money-grubbin'  *****s... by and large.  Hence my healthy attitude and respectful behavior towards the "gentler sex".  "Nice guys" out here seem draw out the beast in these *****es. Luckily for me, few of these chicks saw a future of riches in me.... it took most of my life, but I finally found a really decent gal.  We celebrate our 4th anniversary next Thursday - first marriage for either of us.

Ben, Doug said if you date homeless woman you can just drop them off anywhere. Also if you date homeless woman they probably won't have any teeth (great gum jobs!). I also know what you're goung through. I'm in the middle of getting a divorce now. We've been married for 33 years. We met in high school. I really never dated anyone else. I can't even imagine dating woman I don't even.  I basically dated this girl in high school, who lived in my neighborhood and we got married. Fast forward all these years and I can't imagine starting all over. At this point I don't even want to think of getting involved with another woman. I guess I mean not getting serious with another woman. I'm sure this will change with time. But I don't want to go through all this **** again. Maybe I'll just enjoy being a slimmer bachelor, and porking as many woman as I can. Dan

Looks like you have deciphered the riddle here yourself    Hey, if you can be miserable with or without ***** might as well choose the poontang option. One piece of advice, if you really want to up the quim count: Lower Your Standards    Hell, your dick don't have eyes, does it?  Just make a clean get away before you sober up... you'll never know the difference 

I think you need to move to Houston and go to there support group meetings by the sound of it.   Look back a day or two on the post and you will see what I mean.