Guess thats why she's the EX

Hey guys, wanna vent here for a sec.....

I went to see my ex Saturday, hoping to get some of the kitchen stuff she does not use that I could (George Foreman, blender, etc). I had slept wrong the night before and had a sore neck. When I got there we argued over the kitchen stuff, and other stuff. I went to get up and twisted my neck, so I reacted to the pain with the typical WTF!!!! Well she offered to rub my neck to see if that would help. I agreed and let her. Well about 10 minutes into it she said something that made me want to throw her!!! She said - 'Even though you lost this weight, your skin feals nasty. It's like you have a body suit on and your skin is so flabby' DAMN I was MAD - I wanted to say WTF you expect, I lost 156 lbs you stupid idiot.
I know that it is true, as I see myslf in the mirror every day before I dress, but you dont want to hear it!! Maybe I'm over reacting! She was never in favor of my having the surgery anyway.
Thanks for listening....

Sean

and that your honor is when i cut her into little pieces and stuffed in a glad bag at 3am, in the dark, in the garage, with the lights off, eating her liver with a bottle of cianti and some farva beans........

let it go sean. it's sour grapes and sniping. of course we have loose skin but it doesn't feel any different to the touch! that's a load of bull and she's just trying to hurt you. the flip side of her comment is my g/f and i laugh that i have a sharpie butt! you know, sagging is a side effect and you can live with it or have ps. what i treasure most is that my girl always saw inner me, not the outer me. we'll always be looking at where we need to go since surgery, not where we've been. try to get past that. when looking at people i always try to look to the inner person now more than ever because someone did that for me. someday you'll find the right woman who will see the inner you and won't mind the extra skin. all i can say is don't lose her when you find her. if your ex pulls that again and you decide to dice her up, stuff her in a baggie and toss her in a dumpster you can count on me to vote not guilty at the trial. just have to find a way to get on the jury.....carbonblob

CB -
Thanks for the kind words. I am trying to remember that!
Thanks again..

Sean

Hello My Brother,,,, I just read the post...and I think it's a crappy thing to say, and partially try to sabotage someones health.... and I would have to say...that is only one persons opinion... If I'm not mistaken, last Friday, there sere several women, that would not have thought your skin felt uky... I know you were a gentleman...and did not take them up on their offers....but ain't it nice to know ...you could have, if you wanted to.... Russ

Sean I am so glad you decided to vent in here instead of with her. Stay away from her.  You are only get into trouble if you go near her again. If she has anything else that belongs to you have a friend or relative go get it. It isn't worth getting into trouble over. I am glad you got out of there.  Keep on with your program. A wise dude once told me...The best revenge is to be successful.  It will drive her crazy! 

Put yourself in her shoes.  I don't know your whole story but if you lost a bunch of weight, there is likely some resentment. She's the ex and now you have the opportunity to be the stud.  As a woman she is very image conscious and you came out smelling like a rose. My ex is about 375 and I can't wait till the first time I run into her or her evil friends after my surgery.  I can only imagine the resentment she will have towards me and I really don't give a dam what she says about my skin.  You shouldn't either.  If your healthy, feeling good and liking yourself you are the one who she would like to be.  Relish in the moment man....

Who cares what her malfunction is?  She's yesterday's news and someone else's problem now. If there was any doubt in your mind that divorcing her was a good idea, this little episode should bring a smile of contentment to your face.... as those doubts are now erased for good  I say a quick trip to Ye Olde "massage parlor", or a therapeutic lap dance at your local strip club will do more good for your aching joints than any half-ass neck rub (complete with insults) from your ex-hag    I'd tell her that she can ram the kitchen gadgets up her gaping cooze, small price to pay for being shut of her.

"tell her that she can ram the kitchen gadgets up her gaping cooze"                You DO have a way with words, Baja! 

ah.....yeah sean or just do what baja just said!

Stay away from her.  The aggrevation is not worht a mixer and som kitchen stuff.  Keep up your good work.  She is likely just mad because you have a new life.  the best vengance is living well.