Way past nervous

Seht
on 1/17/08 11:07 pm

Well I'm supposed to call today and find out what time I have to be at the hospital on Tuesday morning. Added to that I just signed the paperwork for my first home purchase. I'm supposed to get the keys today. My son being born, my marriage and my first home purchase. Undoubtedly the 3 biggest things in my life. Probably the only 3 things in my life that have ever really mattered. Man an I ball of nerves right now. I know I have been good with the program my Dr's laid out before me. I have lost 100+ pounds prior to my surgery, and I'm doing this for all the right reasons plus some that I must admit are vanity. I want to live to see my son grow up. I don't want him to have to grow up without a father like I did. I just can't help feeling that I got my family into the biggest purchase of our lives, and something is going to jump up and bite us, or more specifically them. It's not the thought of something happening to me that has me scared, it's the thought of what will happen to them if something happens to me. Thanks for listening to me vent. Scott

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(deactivated member)
on 1/17/08 11:20 pm - MN

Vent away, man. That's what we're here for! And, I know it doesn't calm your verves, but I'm sure your RNY will go fine and the results will probably exceed any expectations you have!

captneehi
on 1/17/08 11:34 pm - WV

RNY on 09/14/07

Scott, sounds to me like you are having the surgery for all the right reasons. Most people are somewhat nervous before surgery and you do seem to have a few more worries than the average person. But hang in there. Tuesday will be here before you know it and you will be on the losing side. I'll keep you in my prayers and thoughts. There is a warm seat waiting for you on the Loser's Bench.

Lee

Charlie B.
on 1/17/08 11:38 pm - Noblesville, IN

Just think, won't be long until you are enjoying your wife, your son and your new home from the great vantage point of the loser's bench! Living to see grandchildren and even great grandchildren is a powerful motivator. Watching my kids get established in life is worth the effort of surgery. Good luck! CB

majesticman
on 1/17/08 11:47 pm - Upstate, NY

RNY on 11/12/07

It's pretty ironic that from all over the place, at all ages, we are all scared and concerned about the same things. It doesn't make it easier at the moment, but it will be a comfort that you are not too different than the rest of us. Take a deep breath, enjoy a child, wife, house and life in general. The surgery will be fine and the program will work for you because you want it to. Best wishes and good luck. Lou

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Doug S.
on 1/17/08 11:47 pm - Pelican Rapids, MN

RNY on 01/22/07

It's going to all work out, just keep the faith. You and I will have the same surgiversay date. Now how cool is that? One year from now I'll be 2 years out, you'll be one year out, thin and ejoying life in your new home with your little family. Stop worrying about the present and focus on your future. That's where you need to put your mind right now. Congratulations on everything that is happening in your life. You are a blessed and fortunate man, remember that. Doug

Seht
on 1/18/08 12:59 am

RNY on 01/22/08

Thanks guys, I guess I guess I'm just a worrying machine. I appreciate the thought and encouragement. Thanks again Scott

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Dx E
on 1/18/08 11:40 am - Northern, MS

RNY on 07/03/03

Scott, Full out Fear and some pretty strong emotions Approaching the surgery time Are as common as Deep Navels out here. Congratulations on all you’ve done to this point to prep For a successful surgery. Enjoy MLK Day with your loved ones, and keep running in the back of your mind— "I Have a Dream!" Hope and pray you are dancing at your grandson’s wedding, And hitting on one of the bridesmaid’s moms…J side note: if ‘anxious’ the morning of the surgery? Ask, soon as they bring you the peek-a-boo-butt-gown, "Can I get something for my anxiety? I think I may have a panic attack if I don’t get a little something to calm my nerves." They will ‘hook you up.’ Ask. If you hear them say "propofol" or "fentanyl" or a word that has that in the description/name, get ready for an injection of Grandmother Love and the Joy of Jesus! Not that I’m a ‘druggie,’ but having 8 surgeries in less than 4 years, I became a bit of an anesthesia/pain med connoisseur. IV Valium is also a little Bonus if they offer. Hey, your going in for the whole deal, why not get all the pleasant perks that are available? (by my 4^th surgery? I was asking for ‘Pre-Op Anxiety Meds’ as I was signing in at the desk! ) Have the Greatest on Tuesday! Know that we’re pulling for you, As are countless others…. Best Wishes- Dx

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BamaBob54
on 1/18/08 3:53 am - Meridianville, AL

RNY on 04/28/08

Heck, I'm 54, been married 36 years, have 2 grown kids and 4 grandkids and I feel the same way. I'm still in the process of geting approved. There is a feeling of excitement and anticipation, coupled with some anxiety about some of the horror stories I have heard. But, I am of the opinion it is and will be worth it to be able to enjoy life to the fullest again, and not just exist. Good luck. You'll be fine, I'm sure. Besides, all these guys can't be wrong!

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