"Communications" From the Fairer Sex (?)

Hmm...maybe that "accident" was constructed to get you to notice her?

Maybe? that's how I would'a figured it anyways!

Jim

 

She wants it!

Funny how they didn't seem so "clumsy" around us, back when we were big 'uns

I dropped my weight real fast (as many WLS people do).  I dropped it so fast my wedding ring was falling off.  I had to take it off for a couple of months.   I had to wait till I got stable before I resized it.  Those two months I had women everywhere acknowledgeing me about anything.  You get a ton more eye contact.  And (because of gravity), you can stand taller.  I don't know what it is, (yeh mom was right) but if you stand tall and with a presence in the area, people will give you more respect and attention.  That will not change who you are.  If your a jerk, it will come to light very quickly.  But with the new found shape, you will in general, get more quality attention.  One more thought about finding a partner for you.  When looking for one, don't look at beauty or assets.  A life partner needs to be a good fit for the long run.  A women like an elementry school teacher or an RN can be alot more settling in the long term than trying to pick someone with the sharpest wit.  Go for comfort.  Sitting down for coffee and pie (Sorry...Protein shake and vitamin B-12 tablets) will tell you more about the person than any clumsy date will every say.  Brian

  yeah for RNs!!!    {+];-)         my only worry with them is - they see M bodies and privates all day long ..  so you have to wonder how you will compare to all those for them!   

sorry - I won't ever post here again since it's such a *****ly issue with you guys. (didn't read that post until after I had already posted here) I tried to delete this comment but I just kept getting error messages so all I could do is edit it to an apology instead. Again, sorry to intrude on your forum.