Two weeks to go before my one year anniversary.

HerbR
on 9/17/07 9:06 am, edited 9/17/07 9:13 am - Upstate, SC

Hello guys,

I have been on the road for almost 5 weeks with three more trips planned out over the next 4 weeks. It’s been great to fly in a standard seat and have “extra room” and though it ****** the flight attendants off, I fly as much as possible with my tray in the down and un-locked position, just because I can get it down and actually use it for hold a book or a water glass without any belly interference.   

I am a couple of weeks away from my one year anniversary, and last week I surpassed the 200 lbs milestone, thanks to my taking full advantage of the tread mills and other equipment in the exercise rooms at the hotels I have been staying with. I use to pick my hotels based on location, now I pick the ones with the best exercise rooms and pools. I bought a bathing suit on one road trip and started swimming as many laps as I could in a half hour. Great workout, which help me reach the 2 bill mark.

I have mixed feelings about the 200 lbs milestone. It would mean a lot more to me if our brother Bob was here, so that we could both cheer each other on. But though I am not a spiritual person, I feel that his connection with his church and all of our positive energy has to be helping him on his journey. I sent him some flower at the hospital and I threw in teddy bear in the order. The bear was sort of my way of being there in spirit. I hope he gets a laugh out of it.

I have to say that I did not do as much soul searching as Bob seemed to do before I had my surgery. I felt like I was bloated and tired and I need help and I went into the surgery blindly without much thought of the consequences. For all the those waiting for a date and all those just starting out on the journey, the last year has been the best in my last 15 years. I have lots of energy, I am moving forward professionally, and my love/obsession with food (in volume) has been replaced with a love of flavor. I find happiness in a small simple grilled chicken breast and broccoli. I have to say that I rarely really think about food unless it time to eat. I work out all my stress in walking, golf, and biking and I find all my love in my wife’s arms and in my family.

I still look at my pants in the morning and say to myself, my butt will never fit into these, yet they do, and I look and feel "good" as I head off to face the day.

Thanks to all my fellow travelers and brothers that have helped me on my journey, I still have 50 lbs to go to reach my goal, but I am in a much better place and still losing a few pounds a week, through your support, smart decisions, and exercise.  Miss you Bob.  Herb


Poor men want to be rich, rich men want to be king.
And a king ain't satisfied 'till they rules everything.
   
                                                                          - Badlands
JeffK
on 9/17/07 9:24 am - Jacksonville, FL
Congrats on your upcoming year and super weight loss.
"On the road that I have taken, one day, walking, I awaken,
amazed to see where I have come,where I'm going, where I'm from".


domino
on 9/17/07 11:10 am - Panhandle, FL

What a fantastic story  -  I'm in awe!   Your words are well said.

bjcarey
on 9/17/07 9:32 pm - Milford, CT
Great story.  I used to tavel every week and at 350 had many backaches after cramming into the seats .  While I do prefer to be home more now, I am sort of looking forward to my next flight.  It will be great to be able to sit comfortably.

Please Keep Bob, Lori, and family in your Prayers. 

HerbR
on 9/17/07 10:45 pm, edited 9/17/07 10:50 pm - Upstate, SC
Thanks for the comments, I look forward towards your successes as well. Here is a photo I would have not attempted a year ago. Me in an Airplane bathroom. :) http://www.obesityhelp.com/photos/uzone,photos/action,gallery/albumId,15463/curPhoto,167515/"> src='http://images.obesityhelp.com/uploads/profile/716181/albums/15463/Airplane.jpg' alt='View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com'>

Poor men want to be rich, rich men want to be king.
And a king ain't satisfied 'till they rules everything.
   
                                                                          - Badlands
(deactivated member)
on 9/17/07 10:49 pm - Waterdown, Canada
I too am only 2 weeks away from my own 1 year anniversary and I'm down 175 lbs -- and I loved reading your comments here Herb! Well done lad....we're all proud of you and how well you've done on this journey.... Keep on going and you'll hit goal sooner than you think! Jim
Dan_P.
on 9/17/07 11:06 pm, edited 9/17/07 11:06 pm - Baltimore, MD
Congrats Herb! Thanks for sharing your story. You look like a completly different person. I love your "I'm putting the tray table down because I can" story. Reminds me of when I'm walking with my co-workers somewhere and they ask me why I'm walking so fast. "Just because I can". Keep unlocking those doors.
Beam me up Scottie
on 9/18/07 1:00 am
Herb Congratulations on your success....I  don't think most people going into WLS do as much soul searching as Bob did....but he's a man of great faith, and wanted to make sure that this wasn't just something he wanted to do, but something he felt that God would be ok with him doing.  I really hope he recovers soon too Congratulations on your success ......that is a really wise way to travel....I never thought about picking a hotel based on exercise equipment.  Scott
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