Don't Feed Them Fatties!
I think fat people looking for acceptance and respect in society are fighting a lost battle. It will never happen. It goes against human nature to look at an obese person the same as anyone else. You're asking for something that is not humanly possible. Even the people who are polite to the obese are really just covering up their true feelings. I've been underweight and overweight in my lifetime several times over, and I know I was respected more and taken more seriously as a thin person 1,000,000% more than being an obese one.