The EASY way?????

People will talk about you when you are fat and still talk about you when yoy get skinny so who cares what poeple say. good luck

Great answers guys!  I've definately decided not to tell much of anyone from now on til it's over and done, and I've lost a bunch.  And then, I'm not even sure. I guess you expect people who know you, and what you've went thru to be 100% supportive, as you would be for them.  Sad to find out it's not true.