NEED TO VENT: NEED WOMEN, WORKOUT ADVICE

ok shhh here i come -- tip toes in --  I had Surgery July 12th last year , im almost 9 month's out , i came from 308 to 198 ( yay 110 pounds gone forever) .. ill say screw her at a chicks point of view , she either likes you or she dont .. and guess what -- i only like big guys!!   yup i have never been attracted to the skinny skinny guys , i like a little meat - grinz .. ok  i think you should shop around a little more , there is a ton of us out there who would scoop you up in a heart beat !!!

 hope you dont mind i posted even tho im not a man !! But i like men if that matter's lol --

 have a good one !

   jenn ~

No worries! I dont mind women peeking here to see that guys here are actually really supportive and offer great advice. Yea im pretty sure im getting over her, Everything on here makes sense and stuff I was thinking but maybe needed someone else to say too....  Thank You all.

Here is my advice. Work on YOU. Eat right, work out right and just do it. Chicks come and go and when your young and dating young women it's a drama fest. Treat the girls like you don't care one way or the other. Take it or leave it. Don't call much, don't get all mushy and definatley don't be a push over. If you do that more than likely they will come to you and meld into what YOU want to do. Give small spickets of romance and acting like you really care (we know you really do but you have to fake her out). Women are emotional creatures you have to treat them as such. Like I said, work on you, care about you blow the rest off and keep a "whatever" additude and you will see. This may be crappy advice as well so take it all with a grain of salt. TBone

WOW! Crazy last few months...I have kinda plataeu around 195....The girl mentioned in this post have met up again like 6months later after this post and well.....we are now boyfriend and girlfriend and its awesome thanks to everyone for the advice!!!

Not to be negative.... but I am sorry to hear that you hooked up with this broad.  From what I can discern from your posts, it sounds like she was stringing you along just to see if you would drop enough weight to hook up with.  Not to knock your old lady or anything.... but if you are gonna be in a relationship where the chick is pulling your strings, you ain't gonna enjoy the ride   Just my chauvinistic two cents.... but if  the guy ain't in the driver's seat,  neither  party  is going to be happy in the long run. Take it from a guy who learned the hard way, at a tender young age myself

over 100+ pounds lost...im enjoying the ride... I mean.........100% sure NOW that the weight wasnt the whole issue...She has grown up quite a bit and knows what she wants...at the end of the day im happy and for now I think thats what counts.