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Blob, Wow, thank you for opening up like that. It sounds like you have done everything right. It sucks that you have had to go through what you have, but you were smart enough to get help in time. Hang in there through the withdrawl and KEEP US POSTED please. Ken

Congrats to you for knowing you had a problem and fixing it. I too had a problem, although slight, still a problem with pain killers. Being a former semi pro football player I was taking percs like they were skittles. Thing with semi pro is that it is a "working man's" league. We practiced weeknights, traveled on Friday, and played Saturday. Sunday was rest day and Monday was back to your day job. You were lucky if you were on a team that could pay you to play. Pain meds were the one thing that got me through that Sunday to get up on Monday and the only thing that would get me to sleep at night, because my knee, achilles, shoulder, etc was on fire. I eventually realized that I had been taking more than I should and just endured the pain. Now when I have surgery I take the minimum and that is it. Good luck and remember that this isn't only a support group for WLS but also for any support you need.

Hey ol buddy, I'm glad you posted this. I know what your going through. I'm addicted as well. It wasn't as bad before surgery because Loracets would make me nauseous, but now since I have the pouch it doesn't bother me. My downfall was always weed and nerve pills now it's a combo of all 3 with some occasional alcohol. It's caused me nothing but problems with relationships and almost got me killed in a car wreck back in Oct, I'm very lucky. Back pain is a ***** so I know what your going through. Hang in there Fred cause were all here for ya, this locker room is better than any support group in my opinion

Hey CB.... I'm here, done quite a bit of recovery work myself....not chemical, ot alcohol, ...relationship...but I guess one addiction is as good as the other.... if you need to talk....i'm here...281-970-5646 You know...this is the first time I think, that Fred has chatted....CB chats all the time... i'm here...not far from these drains.....gimme a call if you like Russ

Fred, If there were a way to hold your hand through cyberspace, I would be holding it now. I pray to God to give you the strength to fight your demons. Have confidence my brother. You are strong and you will win! May Your Lantern Burn Bright, Paul

You can get through this Fred...I know you can! Its one more trial to get through in this Life. Through all that you have been, I'm sure you can look at each one and find a way in which you grew from it, I hope you grow a lot through this one, I'm there for you pal. Hope and Prayers, George

Hey CB, we are with you in this. Please keep us posted on how you are doing and we will be praying for you. Let us know how we can help. We are here to help in any way we can. Thanks for opening up. You are helping a lot of people as well as yourself just for sharing. I am dealing with pain issues myself and your post has really helped me look at my situation. Thanks and don't be a stranger. You are an inspiration to all of us. Blessings, Greg

Fred: Thanks again for your recent sharing. I have been thinking about you everyday. I have a dozen friends who have kicked... It is never easy... you can do it.. Try just following your addiction specialists instructions. Early in my journey; I made the mistake of taking medical advice from my fellow AA members... their hearts were pure.. but their "medical" advice was uneducated.... and it sucked... I now have a new deal..... my doctor does not help me with the 12 steps... and my 12 step brothers do not give me medical advice. Trust your medical team... We are all here for moral and spiiritual support whenever you need it.. Go for it bro.. you are stronger than you will ever know.. and.. you do not have to do it alone... Kev

Fred, You look up adictive personality in the dictionary and you'll see my picture. I should just go by the nickname A.P. Food, alcohol, weed. You name it, I've abused it. But for some reason, I've always been afraid of pills. Never touched a painkiller. That was until my RNY surgery, when I filled my lortab prescription. And guess what? Surprise, surprise, I liked them. I really liked them. Especially cuz I wuz in my six month no drinking phase. I realized they were everything I was always afraid they would be....an quick trip to a relaxed mindset....something that I was missing since drinking was no longer an option. It's amazing how freaking addictive those *******s can be. Good luck buddy. It's been 3 months since I've taken one. But I didn't have the chronic pain issues that you are facing. You can get through this. Scott M.

Hang in there, CB! You've made it over the highest hurdle! You know we're here for you anytime you need to vent! As many of the guys have already mentioned, we all can relate to having addictive personalities with food, and many of us have had issues in other areas, too. Just take one day at a time. Things will get better! Best wishes, Matt