had my psych consult yesterday...

Went for my Psych exam yesterday @ Baystate. It didn't go as well as I thought it would and the Doctor told me I need to see a therapist to resolve some issues she feels I have. I have called to set-up an appointment with someone as the Doctor said if I didn't it could impede me being oked for the surgery. If I wasn't depressed enough going into the visit, I sure was coming out! I just feel every way I turn I am running into walls. I have my second visit with Doctor Kahn and the nutrionist is next week. I wonder what wall will pop up with them! I am working on all the things they have told me too, and believe me, I want this surgery so bad I will do anything they want. And I know there is a reason for everything they tell you, but I could sure use some positive news. I am going to my monthly meeting tonight and that I can't wait for, as I really love these meetings and get a lot out of them. Thanks for letting me vent. Your all in my prayers.

Cathy, stick with the process--it will be worth it. Hang in there. Joan F.

You learn a lot about yourself during the process and yes it is depressing. But you have so much better living to look forward to. Just do what they tell you and it will all be worth it, to get to the losing side. Best wishes. Dawn -113

Cathy, Try to think of the recommendation for therapy as a doorway to a new you,rather than a wall. You can get through this doorway and learn a lot about yourself in the process to allow for post-op success. Keep coming back to vent. It is worth the struggle! Luann LapRNY 9/14/04 -44lbs.

Cathy, Hang in there. I know it is frustrating now, but a little help dealing with issues could be a good thing. You would not believe how stuff affects you after surgery . Without food as a coping mechanism.....anxiety, and depression often get the better of us as post ops. I speak from experience! If you can understand your issues more clearly and learn some other coping skills, you won't be as likely to fall back on food and you will improve your chances to be a successful long-term post op! Hang in there and remember that we are all here supporting you on your journey to a healthier body and mind.

Was your Psych BRENDA?????? she can be soooo difficult!!! I had her as my psych and She wouldn't approve me right away either until I met with her again and had to bring my hubby along too. She had issues with me and the same deal as you have!! But, I'm happy to say I went the 2nd time with such a "positive" weither real or put on, attitide and she said she'd approve me. I had to see her a week prior and a month post but, no big deal! I had my suregery in June and have been doing great since! Don't let it worry you, PLAY the GAME! could you tell me when the rest of the meetings are at baystate this month. I missed last months and don't have a new paper with the november dates! Thanks

Cathy I don't mean to not take what the physh has to say to heart. But, I do mean don't let it weigh you down and like the other's say, it is an adjustment and they are only concerned that you'll not adjust to it well. Go again to see her if you are suppost to and work on being positive about the changes that are permenent This you have to make her understand that YOU understand that! Good luck!! ~ Mary