Ok Ladies need your help???

tauntonredsox33
on 9/15/09 5:50 am - Taunton, MA
I'm browsing on an onlline dating site...lol

I'm hoping I will be asked out on a few dates ( cross fingers )

Ok here is my dilemma.....  it appears most men want to go out to dinner on the first date.. ( it is stated in thier profile )
OMG I can't imagine eating in front of a guy now... I don't want to come off as a prude,,,
I would have to eat so little and I DO NOT WANT TO DISCUSS MY WLS ON THE FIRST DATE!!!
Any ideas on how I can handle this situation???

Hope this makes sense to all of you!!!!
Melissa M. 
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on 9/15/09 8:47 am - Togo
Suggest bowling instead. It is a better 'mixer' for a date anyway.

It is hard to sit down and talk over dinner to someone you don't know for any length of time. It's awkward.

Happy dating !

                                                       

 
Sue M.
on 9/16/09 12:11 am - Nantucket, MA
i suggest "coffee" dates. 
However, after a 1st date, if it goes well, you're gonna end up at a meal - it's what we americans do!
I have told people before a first date and ON a first date about my WLS - though I am further out than you and can just look like one of those women who don't eat in front of men.
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M M
on 9/16/09 3:07 am
Eek.

I can't even imagine DATING, let alone eating what I order at restaurants with a DATE.  :x

(Ribs.)

I never did, date, though.
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