Time frame
This is my first post and I am just wondering if someone can give me an idea of how long it takes to actually get a surgery date? My insurance is BC/BS of MA so there are no hurdles to go through with insurance requirements. I have met twice with the nutritionist and see her again next week. I have met with a surgeon once (although it turns out he is not the doctor who will doing my procedure). I have had my abdominal ultrasound and done a barium swallow test. I have also attended 4 support group meeting. I am afraid to ask anyone how long it will be because I am afraid they will make a note that I am being impatient and move me to the bottom of the list. (Not rational thinking I know...but can't help being a little irrational...I Am impatient!) it is so hard to plan my life for the next few months when I have this large unknown hanging over my head. Of course I am ready to have the surgey yesterday...how do I survive the waiting?