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Kate -True Brit
on 5/30/15 5:24 am
Topic: RE: I'm new here ! So please bare with me
On May 30, 2015 at 4:48 AM Pacific Time, Ilovemyself wrote:

Thank you so much for your honesty. I've been researching for the longest and i hear so many different stories good and bad. But reading your totally changed my mind. Thank you 😀

Changed it for or against?  

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/30/15 2:30 am
Topic: RE: I'm new here ! So please bare with me

Please bear in mind that I am a very happy and very successful bandit now 9 years post-op. I do not regret my band, would do it all over again and if I ever have to have it removed, I would hope to have a replacement.

When I was banded in 2006, it was a miracle surgery. And for some people, who accept that they will still have to work hard, it is just that. It was and still is for me. But over the years it has become clear that serious complications necessitating further surgery are much more common than originally thought. Some of these are avoidable by careful eating and by not keeping the band tight; unfortunately others are beyond our control.

We used to be warned about band slips, leaks and about ( very rare) erosion into the stomach tissue but it turns out that a build up of scar tissue round the band (causing it to tighten) is quite common. It can be very difficult to get the right level of restriction and some people are tempted to keep it tight enough to physically limit food, in fact it was once thought this was how it should be. But this causes food to back up into the oesophagus and that risks problems such as oesophageal dysmotility which may be irreversible. It can also damage the vagus nerve.

Some doctors have stopped implanting bands as they found the removal rate was unacceptably high and it was too easy not to lose enough weight. Revision from band to sleeve is not uncommon! On this site you will read more bad stories than good. This is partly because there simply have been a lot of people who had problems but it is also partly because about three years ago, it became a very unpleasant board for banded people and a lot left. I was called a liar for saying I have been successful; people who had just had their bands implanted were told they were stupid and would inevitably have serious issues. People with the smallest complication were told to revise before catastrophe struck.

The band makes it easier by dimming hunger, but it does nothing for head hunger and, contrary to popular opinion, it does not and should not physically stop us eating. If it does it is too tight!

Having said all that, I love my band, I know many successful long term bandits in real life. My own experience has been good and so has that of almost all those I actually know and have met. I know IRL around 50 banded people; all over four years out, many over 8 years. I admit I have lost touch with some but of all those I know about only two have lost their bands. One of these admits she abused her band deliberately, the other had a no -related medical condition. My own doctor tells me he has removed a very small number of bands. He didn't specify what that meant but, unlike US doctors he is salaried and has no financial incentive to perform band as opposed to other surgeries (which he also performs). He still believes banding is a good option.

No surgery is perfect. I know two sleeved people whose lives are now truly miserable because of their sleeves and one bypass patient who very nearly died because of her operation and two years later is still severely affected by it.

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/24/15 11:44 am
Topic: RE: Lap Band removal

Try the Texas board, good luck, 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/24/15 10:03 am
Topic: RE: LAP BAND SUCCESS

Well done. Contrary to some opinions, there are still a lot of us about! 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/20/15 8:22 am
Topic: RE: Lap band, no lap band...lap band again?
On May 19, 2015 at 9:03 PM Pacific Time, Pumpkin X . wrote:

I'm not one to mince words...GET RID OF YOUR DAMN BAND !

She has actually said twice that she has already had her band removed. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/17/15 4:09 am, edited 5/17/15 4:09 am
Topic: RE: TOO TIGHT

Being too tight is not only dangerous, it often slows loss as there is a tendency to graze or eat soft foods which are often higher calorie. 

Why do you think you are tight? Are you bringing food back? Getting stuck? Reflux? If it is any of those things, you need to get saline out asap.  Being too tight can cause serious and sometimes irreversible damage to your oesophagus and/or vagus nerve. 

If you have been the same weight for three years, you are eating the amount your body needs to maintain your current weight. So you need to cut calories. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/15/15 11:20 pm
Topic: RE: Nausea/vomiting and Lap Band

There are lots of things about our NHS which are worrying!  But it's nothing, NOTHING like as bad as some of your anti-Obamacare politicians portrayed it.  I have always had excellent service from it. 

They wouid not have done my surgery in the first place because I didn't have any co-mirbidities but they would almost certainly have done it if I had diabetes or something. But now I have the surgery, all my aftercare is done totally free by the NHS and if I had any problem, they have a legal duty of care to look after me. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/15/15 11:38 am
Topic: RE: Nausea/vomiting and Lap Band

Wow, must be so difficult not having a national health service. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/15/15 10:34 am
Topic: RE: Nausea/vomiting and Lap Band

Something must be done! Easy for me to say when I don't have to work with the U.S. system! But you are at risk of doing yourself harm if your band is this tight. Constant building up of food/liquid can damage the base of the oesophagus. And you are going to get malnourished. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/14/15 11:55 pm
Topic: RE: Nausea/vomiting and Lap Band

Whatever the cause, you need to find it out! When you say belly pain, where do you mean? Above the band, around it, below it?

And is the vomit after eating? Specific foods? 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/14/15 3:17 am
Topic: RE: Lap band, no lap band...lap band again?

I answered this! At length. But my post isn't here!!!!  I'll try again. If you suddenly have two answers - I'll come back and remove one.

You say you don't want a surgery to remove bits of your stomach,  but it rather sounds as if, partly due to the band and partly due to your surgeon making a hole in your stomach, you already have been "altered".  

I also have a basic reluctance to have bits of me removed and if I ever lost my band I honestly don't know what I would do.  I am almost sure I would not have another surgery.  Having said that most band to sleeve revisions and band to bypass revisions seem to work well.  Not all! I have good online friends for whom the revisions were definitely not good moves - but from reading on here, they seem to be in the minority. 

I have been fortunate - at 9 years post-op my band is still working well for me. I hope I may never have to make these decisions!

So, sorry, not being much help! But I do understand! 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/8/15 10:33 am
Topic: RE: Having the lap band removed

Nuclear, your signature line has disappeared!!!! At any rate there  is no link there.

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/8/15 7:29 am
Topic: RE: nutrient guidelines

As we do not malabsorb any nutrients, there are no specific guidelines. Just make healthy choices. If you need figures, just google any site which gives recommended daily intakes for someone of your age and gender. 

Having said that, some doctors and nutritionists do make clear guidelines so you should ask your own medical team.

i never counted anything except occasionally (just to make sure I was on track)  calories. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/7/15 2:02 am
Topic: RE: Lapband failure

PM me any time.

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/7/15 12:51 am
Topic: RE: Lapband failure

Lapbands don't work for everyone. But it is equally true that ALL types of weight loss surgery require us to have the correct mindset and work hard! It is perhaps easier with the sleeve which physically limits intake (but still allows bad food choices) or the bypass which restricts intake and also causes some calories to be nakabsorbed (but still allows bad food choices!). But all weight loss patients can eat round their surgery. The DS is the most radical and in some ways more forgiving but even with that you can still fail to lose if you live on carbs, 

Unless it is too tight, the band will never stop you eating your kids' cereal!

i don't understand why you had saline removed to let you take a break. Was the band so tight it made eating difficult? And if that was the case, was it not helping you restrict intake?

All the band does -and for many people it is not enough to help them - is slow your eating so that your brain thinks you have eaten more than you have and so no longer tells you you are hungry. It shouid not stop you eating, it shouid not make eating unpleasant (unless you eat too quickly or don't chew enough). 

I consider my band to be perfectly adjusted. If I eat a sensible portion of food, starting with dense protein, and then stop eating - I will not think of food fir a good few hours. If I am around food and bored, I may well want t! I may have to fight very hard not to eat it. Do I keep busy and away from food and don't fell hungry. On a busy da, I forget to eat. On a quiet day, I have to work very hard bit to eat.  I couid aiways physically eat more. 

You have to want to be slim and healthy more than you want that food! You have work out ways to handle boredom and stress which dint involve food.  Over here in the UK, we don't go in all that much for therapy, but might that be an option for you?

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 5/6/15 7:02 pm, edited 5/7/15 1:09 am
Topic: RE: Lapband failure
On May 7, 2015 at 8:06 AM Pacific Time, lacey_dream wrote:

Well I think if I had researched and my doctor had talked to more about other options I would have gotten the sleeve no one told me until after about other options and now I regret not doing the sleeve my aunt Jennifer had it and she is so thin she was like 400 ibs. I am failing myself I'm sabbataging myself and I don't know how to stop I'm actually looking up different low carb shake recipes maybe that will help sweet tooth u r so strong I am so happy for u. I did have trouble eating cuz of bad habits and I'm slowing down and taking smaller bites now that I am trying to get refocused it's doing better last three days. I don't exactly know how to feel if band is full enough cuz let me tell u I am hungry two hours after I eat and I feel hungry I don't know if it's my brain or what but I do actually feel a hungry sensation. 

 

 

Point by point!  Shakes are liquid calories! Liquid does nothing for our hunger level. The very best thing would be to go cold turkey. It would be HARD for a while and you would probably get carb withdrawals symptoms like  headache and maybe nausea. But they would pass. But if you feel you can't do that, find an alternative, not shakes! Bizarrely, I find fruit like melon is more filling and sweeter than other fruits. I also often have sugar free boiled sweets, many would say avoid these because of sweeteners etc and they do act as a laxative!!  But for me they provide a boost of sweetness.

Hunger, IMO it doesn't matter a damn if it is head hunger or "real" hunger. I still want to eat. So my way is first of all to get busy! Or do something where I am away from food. I might even have a bath. You can eat in the bath but only if you take food in with you! But if that doesn't work, I eat. Otherwise it will just get worse and worse.  Not just a taster, something to fill me. If I am at home,  might have three fish fingers (think you call them fish sticks) which come out at under 200 calories. But something which is solid and savoury. 

If you are eating outside planned mealtimes, it is important to keep a daily total. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/26/15 1:29 am
Topic: RE: Ulcer and lap ban

One of the issues may be, if the tablets are large, that they may be dissolving above the band which is less acidic than the main stomach, this can cause tissue damage.  Also, eating and or drinking in the night might trigger reflux which again could irritate the tissue.

as Hislady says, your usual doctor can check for damage. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/23/15 5:21 am, edited 4/23/15 5:22 am
Topic: RE: Need some guidance...

Argh!  One night, about four years ago, I went to bed with good restriction and woke up in the morning with none.  By injecting dye into the port under XRay, the doctor saw I had a leak in the tubing midway between the band and the port. It had to be repaired under general anaesthetic but has been fine ever since. 

 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/23/15 5:08 am
Topic: RE: Need some guidance...

Have I got this right. You have a tightish band, get reflux but still feel hunger? 

I can't offer answers but maybe some suggestions.

A tight band can cause reflux. After a while, scar tissue can build up which causes the band to tighten and so worsen reflux.  Excess acid can cause feelings similar to hunger.

i was banded the same year as you and I have twice had slight tightening which we assumed was caused by scar tissue. Both times the tightness showed by (very mild) night time reflux and both  times I had just 0.1cc removed and the problem went away. 

 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/22/15 5:35 am
Topic: RE: Xpost life expectancy of the band

Hi Crystsl. glad to hear it is still good for you!  

I dont think anyone ever doubted the physical band can last a lifetime.  Many say, as you do, that the time the band is IN the body is a very different issue.  I was just trying to find out if the statement made so very often on here that the manufacturers themselves say it will have to be removed after ten years was true - not the statement being true but the fact the manufacturers said it! I e-mailed Allergan and they replied that they had never said it. 

A couple of people (whom I have no reason at all to doubt)  have said they read it prior to getting their (non-band) surgery, back as far as 2003.  But interestingly, no-one (even the most bitter  ex-banded person) ever pointed out this statement until maybe around 2009 or later and when people started quoting it, they always said that "even the manufacturers *now* say this". 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/20/15 4:27 am
Topic: RE: have not been to a bariartic doctor in 10 years

It hasn't happened to me but if it had slipped, I think you would know it! Basically th band doesn't move, the tissue of the stomach comes up through the band so making it very tight. So if you are eating without problems then IMO you have no slip! And if you are controlling your eating without problem, then you have no dilation above the band.

i used to go for an annual barium swallow but my doc said that there really is n need unless I feel I have issues. And I haven't needed a fill for 7 1/2 years, so I haven't seen him for ages. I did see the nurse a couple of years ago because I felt I wanted a tiny bit of saline out (mild night time reflux). 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/17/15 5:42 pm, edited 4/17/15 5:43 pm
Topic: RE: When does the pain stop??

Having knives stuck into you, your organs handled and then stitches put in tends to hurt for a few days! I was one if the lucky ones and never even needed pain medicine but it us going to take at least a few days. Just take it easy and in a couple of days you will feel fine! 

but if you have gas pain, moving as much as you can helps. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/16/15 4:29 pm
Topic: RE: Leak, tilted port or what ???

Unfortunately Hislady is correct. I am not a doctor and so am only reporting what I have read on here but, from that, erosion does not always show on a barium swallow. The band can eat into the tissue without slowing the speed at which the barium passes. Unlike slips which almost always cause tightening, erosion can cause a loss of restriction which obviously doesn't slow the movement of the barium. 

Tilted ports are not uncommon but I have no personal experience.

i assume your issue is a lack of restriction? And that the doctorcannot access the port to either check saline levels or add more?

i do, however, have experience of a leak. But that can only be ascertained by injecting dye into the port. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/16/15 4:05 am
Topic: RE: Xpost life expectancy of the band

That's OK, Nic!  Realise you weren't aiming at me! It was the last poster who highjacked it by apparently not realising I wasn't asking how long the band lasted but asking WHERE it was stated. 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

Kate -True Brit
on 4/12/15 4:59 pm, edited 4/12/15 5:00 pm
Topic: RE: Xpost life expectancy of the band

DancingFool, Thank you for your clarification.  Allergan running scared sounds like one of those oft-repeated facts which gain their own currency! A bit like tweets which get re-tweeted!! May or may not be true but a bit of evidence wouid be nice! 

Highest 290, Banded - 248   Lowest 139 (too thin!). Comfort zone 155-165.

Happily banded since May 2006.  Regain of 28lbs 2013-14.  ALL GONE!

But some has returned! Up to 175, argh! Off we go again,

   

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