Who needs to ***** It's B*TCHFest!!

 

You "old timers" know how this madness and chaos works, but for your new kids (or just people who haven't participated before) here are the B*TCHFest General Rules and Codes of Conduct:
  
"B*TCHFest"  is provided as a public service to those of us who have gripes and grievances but who (whom?), for whatever reason, lack a regular forum in which to air them. You are welcome to voice any problems - large or small, important, mundane or ridiculous -  that currently have your panties wadded, your shorts frosted and your gears ground. Don't hold them in and risk future medical issues, wrinkles and/or those pesky gray hairs.

ANY and ALL issues that are plaguing you are open for you to voice; there are no "sacred cows." They say that "feelings aren't facts", so if you're feeling it, it's legit to you. NO ONE is allowed to flame a poster for something he or she writes, however commiseration is not only welcomed but encouraged. Please, no personal attacks against other OH members (at least, not by name) and  PLEASE, NO SURGERY WARS!

I'll start you off with a few gripes of mine, and you all can join in at any time! No limits - come back as many times as you like!

WARNING! Adult content ahead! Posts may (and probably will) contain "adult" content and language. I know that MINE will. Rated TV-MA.



- Dear body of mine: I took you to the gym FOUR times last week. Four hours out of my life when I could have just crawled back into my nice, warm bed. I cardio-ed, lifted, curled, squatted . . . and gained a pound. So, screw you if you can't play nice.

- Dear sometimes-boss: I'm sorry that your client hasn't paid you. But if you don't pay ME, I can't eat, pay the mortgage, pay the electric bill or even put gas in my car. "Net 30" means just that.

- This is now my FIFTH Christmas without a stable, full-time job. And that ******g sucks. If I was a total **** who cared nothing for other people, I'd probably be a billionaire by now.

- Attention citizens of the world: I'll say it again! NOT EVERY BUMP IN THE LAPBAND ROAD REQUIRES A REVISION!! Sometimes, it's just a minor thing or - GASP! - nothing!

Okay, that's it. Go forth and *****
 

Amen to:  NOT EVERY BUMP IN THE LAPBAND ROAD REQUIRES A REVISION!! Sometimes, it's just a minor thing or - GASP! - nothing!

 

OH MAN DO I NEED TO *****~

1st gripe is my hotel has been sold and managers are fleeing like we have a fire! No one is selling ..god damn it I work for a hotel not a company is my motto!

2nd is dear husband stop picking fights with me at this time. 2 fights with in 3 days is too much. (we put lights on our Christmas tree that were all blue that were used outside last year. I liked it and it was nice to be different this year.. I went outside and said that the lights outside looked sad... what does he do while I am work .. takes them off the tree when it was decorates and puts them outside. DAMN IT I liked them on the tree. I told him why didn't you ask me first.. then he flipped out and told me my stress at work is making me a ***** no he is making me a *****!

OH the first fight was about my fat clothes ...that I still have kept and are taking up space lol- he said he was going to throw all my clothes away!

(god hope he does not come on this site while I am at work since I am logged in at home)

Question of the day.. will we make it to our 40th wedding Anniversary on December 31?

ugh. thanks Bette for the forum to *****!

Love the bfest!!!!!  My secretary in our volunteer organization stopped doing the minutes. She would arrive to meetings almost an hour late ( 2 hour meeting) She would lose the minutes she took, claim family members threw them away,  forget key info, didn't have a working printer, for 6 months. Tried to replace her, she refused and told me I crossed the line and had MAJOR CONTROL ISSUES. Fast forward, all 6 months now done, arrived on time, prob first time in a decade, and I guess to screw me, chose to not participate in gifting our Christmas family which was our holiday community service project. What a ***** and I didn't get to say it bc I stood on strictly objective data. I feel better. 

Just what I needed, Bette. Ok, here goes. I am sick of worrying. It is constant, worry about finances, worry about health issues, just all of it!
Things are so tight that I am wondering how I am going to get gifts for 9 grandchildren. Our daughter is even worse off and we can't help them. Grrrr.....

My husband is facing a possible diagnosis of Alzheimers or another dementia. We have finally gotten the marriage we always wanted and now I may be losing him by inches. Not fair. We won;t know anything until the 20'th but it doesn't look good. I really hate this! I thought losing our daughter was the worst thing that could happen. Apparently not. God carried us through that one and I know he will again but I have to admit I am terrified!

Ok, done *****ing now. Thanks!

I am sick of worrying. It is constant, worry about finances, worry about health issues, just all of it!

 

I am soooo with you on this one!

Sorry Granny.. now I feel bad for my *****ing. I love my husband and would die if I lost him . Hope all goes well and maybe some meds will help him.

if they don't fix this fiscal cliff thing we all maybe poorer than we are..ugh.

Hotel biz is down even more for this time of year, companies are not booking.

I am sick of myself!  When am I going to stand up and say "NO" to the coworkers who don't support me and the friends who are content to let me shoulder all the burdens of relationships-planning, paying for and so on.

My own damn fault.

And no matter how many presents I buy or how many decorations I put out, except for Secret Santa, this Christmas is one to just get through and then forget!

 

"I am sick of myself! When am I going to stand up and say "NO" to the coworkers who don't support me and the friends who are content to let me shoulder all the burdens of relationships-planning, paying for and so on."

****i don't have to be the only one who picks up the phone to see how you are! Return the favor!
Prek3

Dear PAID school aide!
Don't act like you are doing me a freakin favor watching my class from the doorway while I go pee! You are lucky you get a check and health insurance for picking your nose and sucking up oxygen!

Dear Parent,
Stop doping your kid up and spend some quality time with him!

Brother inlaw!
Just freakin sweep and mop! Omg! That you should earn your stay here while you "get back on your feet"!!!!! And wipe off the crumbs and use a damn napkin!

Dear coworker!
It's not all about YOU! Everyone has their **** but we leave it at the door when we enter the building! You are stressing me out, that's why I want to stuff my face instead of going toe to toe with you!

Cancer!? Give mom a damn break! She's
Has had a heck of a year! Go back and rot in HELL!!!!!!

Okay young dumb cashier! Smile and be great full you have a damn job! There are plenty of people who would love to actually earn paycheck!

Wow that felt good! **** I just may cancel my appt. with my counselor!!!! : )

Prek3