Why do some bandsters want to block and then talk about those that they blocked on the...

MARIA F.
on 4/23/12 4:29 am - Athens, GA
 
Just wondered everyone elses view on this. I personally thing adults should act like adults and not go into hiding, or "pretend" not to be there. I'm not going to say anything to someone else that I wouldn't say to that person, so I just consider it extremely tacky when someone on a forum blocks a person............and then talks about them behind their back. Of course some of us have more to hide though I suppose. Just saying......................

 

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sfnativewm
on 4/23/12 5:06 am
Gee, COWARDS, CHICKEN***T, CAN'T WALK THE TALK!   With that said Maria, let them be.  Hiding from life and things does not help the weightloss in the end.


LOL and maybe they are afraid to argue with you as they don't know you like a lot of us do!

~Ann~
Band removed and feeling alive with energy!

Bette B.
on 4/23/12 5:14 am
 Maria: don't stop with the bandsters. The self-righteous DSers who finally buggered the **** off used to do it ALL THE TIME!

    

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Stacy T.
on 4/23/12 5:16 am
Amen Bette

Pre-Op wt : 210 (Nov 08)

Lowest Post-op wt: 145 (Jul 12)

Removal wt: 185 (Feb 19)

Bette B.
on 4/23/12 5:19 am
 Hey, Maria! You know me- I'll call you a ***** to your face, *****! 

    

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MARIA F.
on 4/23/12 8:01 am - Athens, GA
On April 23, 2012 at 12:19 PM Pacific Time, Bette B. wrote:
 Hey, Maria! You know me- I'll call you a ***** to your face, *****! 
 
And I'm cool with that. I can be, and would never pretend that I'm not. I don't mind being confronted on something that's legit, and it it's not legit.............confront me anyway. We can always discuss!

And Bette...............even though u call me a *****you remain one of my favorite band cheerleaders! ;-)

 



 

 

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Bette B.
on 4/23/12 5:20 am
 

    

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c_cubed
on 4/23/12 7:02 am
I'll go as far as saying I don't know why anyone would block anyone to begin with. There is not a soul on this forum that is going to have such an impact on me that I have to block them.  I don't lose one wink of sleep over anything that has been said to me directly or indirectly.  It is such silliness to give complete strangers that much power over you. 

As for your original post, I have seen people allude to others that I assume they dislike or that they have blocked and it's very off-putting. 

I personally would like OH to monitor its own forum and restrict such users.   This forum is supposed to be for those of us wanting to exchange experiences and thoughts of a particular type of WLS and it  gets old when the same people are constantly causing conflict.  

SMH

MARIA F.
on 4/23/12 8:31 am - Athens, GA
On April 23, 2012 at 2:02 PM Pacific Time, c_cubed wrote:
I'll go as far as saying I don't know why anyone would block anyone to begin with. There is not a soul on this forum that is going to have such an impact on me that I have to block them.  I don't lose one wink of sleep over anything that has been said to me directly or indirectly.  It is such silliness to give complete strangers that much power over you. 

As for your original post, I have seen people allude to others that I assume they dislike or that they have blocked and it's very off-putting. 

I personally would like OH to monitor its own forum and restrict such users.   This forum is supposed to be for those of us wanting to exchange experiences and thoughts of a particular type of WLS and it  gets old when the same people are constantly causing conflict.  

SMH

 
You call it conflict............I call it "education" ;-)

 



 

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c_cubed
on 4/23/12 9:03 am
  education?  uuuhhhh    LOL
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