Lap Band Newbie

I am so sorry that you do not have support from your family, but please do not let this derail you in your efforts to improve your health.

I have discussed this exact issue here: http://lapbandgalsjourney.blogspot.com/2010/12/easy-way-out. html

AND here: http://lapbandgalsjourney.blogspot.com/2011/02/would-you-lik e-gooey-fudgy-chocolatey.html

I personally think that being fat was easier than being banded.

I had lapband one year ago.  I encourage you to closely follow the diet supplied to you by your surgeon/nutritionist.  I did at first and rapidly lost weight, then I started cheating a little here and there and stopped loosing. My husband is very excited about my loss, but wants me to loose more.  He thinks he is being supportive, but just being with him and his food needs makes my eating very difficult because he loves all of the things I shouldn't have.  I haven't told other friends and family because I didn't want to hear their negative comments. 

I have a friend who hasn't eaten any sweets in six months and she has lost twice the weight I have.  At meals I do okay because I can't eat much, but snacking is my downfall.

Don't get discouraged, just get stubborn about following your diet and not letting others and their needs interfere with what you need to do.

People who haven't had the surgery have no idea how hard it still it.  I suggest you look for a support group, join it and be very active.

Welcome to the group.  I was just banded on 12/1/11.  I do have family support, but never told my close friends and in-laws that I was going to do this until a few days before I went in for my procedure.  I just didn't want them to judge me, ask me 20 thousand questions or attempt to change my mind.  Because of my situation, I needed this surgery to loose a lot of weight quickly.  I need a hip replacement and the lighter I am the more successful the surgery could be.

I look at it as my LAP Band is just a tool to help me eat better, be more aware of what I'm eating and when and to get me responsible for ME.  I'm down just about 40 pounds and fairly happy with the success, although I did think it would go faster.  And YES, I do cheat.  I have to satify my sweet spot occasionally and I've found some wonderful 100 calorie treats such as Skinny Cow fudgicles, Keebler 100 calorie chocolate cookie pkgs, and even the Special K fruit bars.  You can do some cheating, but it's moderation, like have a little today so I can have a little again in another day or two.  I also reward myself...by buying clothing not food!  A shirt, blouse or pants a week!  You'll be amazed what that simple thing does for your confidence and continued success.  People will notice, compliment you...it's a big high!

Check in here often.  You'll find some nice, knowledgeable people to help you along the bumps in the road!

Lisa Powers
LAPBand 12/1/11
300lbs start
Down 40 pounds 2/4/12
Hip Replacements scheduled!!!