Lap Band Newbie

Hello, My name is Stacey Coats and I am a recent newbie to the lapband surgey. I am seeking some motivational support and encouragement as I know that this is a tough journey for me. I don't have a lot of support in my family because of the lapband. My family thinks since I had the lapband they think it is more like cheating rather than doing it myself. It is a lot harder than they think. I am desperate and always feel like I am failing in this area. I would appreciate any and all help thanks so much.

Stacey Coats 

 Welcome Stacey.  I don't get a lot of support from my family either.  This is not the easy way out, it takes a lot of work.  Congrats on your surgery.  Michelle.

I'm with you! About a month behind. Got home from the hospital this week, still on clear liquids. My family also feels I should have been able to do this without surgery. Seek out others! My close friends and especially my husband are very supportive. Aim normally very active and this hanging around for two weeks on liquids is driving me crazy!

But, I too will get through this part and we will make it work! I have found the people on this site to be very supportive and provide great information.

Thanks SueBee01!  I am glad you have the special friends and husband supporting you. You can do this. We both made the first step in this journey and we will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Congrats on your surgery and to a healthier you!

Thanks Michelle!

 Well, come sit with us, Stacey. We'll be your online family.

Thanks  Cre8tv for inviting me to be part of a online family!!

 You are welcome!

Hi Stacey,

I don't have support from my family either, which has caused me some set-backs. I have learned that it is my responsiblity to make this work, 'cause if I leave it up to my hubby we'll be eating cheesesteaks and McDonald's everyday! 

I'm not going to lie to you and tell you the band is a fix all.  If you really want to you can "eat around the band", but why go through all of this just to cheat?!  Just remember why you did this and try to keep on track.  There are a lot of supportive wonderful people on here to lean on. There's also a couple not so nice people - just ignore them ).

Good luck with everything and keep in touch! 

Lisa 

Oh my husband and children always want to eat junk food, which is terrible for me. I have little will power, but I sure am trying to change my mindset. Thanks Lisa for the support and motivation!