NSV.... The look on the Ex's face.. priceless!!!

thindownunder01
on 1/9/12 2:35 am - Kingwood, TX

So.. I haven't seen my "baby daddy" since before my surgery in April. This is the man that I absolutely tried everything I could imagine for him to love me and commit to me.. but I never was good enough. My weight always hindered him from committing to me.

Our story is complicated.. he was in the Navy and when he got out went back to his hometown in Texas and his daughter and I were from and lived in Massachusetts.. I packed up our life and moved to Texas where I knew nobody to give this family thing a shot. After a couple years I found out that he had another woman on the side. So after 8 years of trying I finally gave up.. she can have him! She was the thin "home-wrecker" that he was attracted to, not me... the amazing person who was overweight.

I am now married to an amazing man who loves me... all of me... thin or fat.. but back to the NSV..

I have waited all this time till the perfect opportunity to strut my stuff 85 lbs lighter... So on Christmas eve he was bringing our daughter home and I pranced out the front door. and he was soo confused and flabbergasted.... I was so proud. He was stuttering and drooling and now is texting me about how beautiful I am and how sexy I look since I have lost all the weight and so on...

The "other" woman is now his wife and my daughter tells me that they are always fighting and Daddy always tries to get her to go on a diet and that she is lazy and messy and doesn't help around the house etc.

I was always too "fat" for him to be attracted to me... but his now "wife"... is way bigger than I ever was.

Hope that bed he made for himself is comfy. Karma is a ***** huh?

BANDED 4/4/11 STARTING WEIGHT 243

(deactivated member)
on 1/9/12 2:41 am

probably - no, hands down the best NSV i've read to date !!

congrats to you !

Donnamarie
on 1/9/12 2:54 am - NY

Lap Band on 03/29/11

Nice!!! Those moments are entirely priceless!! Good for you and your happiness and I'll throw a quick "sucks to be you" his way!!

"Accountability first to yourself, then nobody else matters"

Tooty
on 1/9/12 3:09 am - Germantown, TN

REALIZE Band on 03/31/09

That's AWESOME...and reminds me of a litle joke I heard the other day...

An old couple were fighting and the old man told his wife he would put "Cold as Ever" on her headstone. The old woman promptly replied yours will say, "Finally Stiff." LOLOLOLOL

Cathlena - 39, 4'11" Start - 210 3/31/09 BMI Start: 42.4
LilySlim - (OdX3)

pitablond
on 1/9/12 4:12 am - Harrisburg, PA

Lap Band on 05/27/09

That is AWESOME. Good for you! I did that once to an ex of mine...except it was at a funeral. lol

~*Ashley*~ Highest weight: 330ish Current weight: 198

debbie H.
on 1/9/12 4:18 am - AR

Well, you found a guy...and then you found a man. Congrats for the NSV and for making the right choice.

melly37
on 1/9/12 5:11 am - Rio Rancho, NM

VSG on 04/03/12

That is an amazing NSV, one that many of us dream of!! Congrats!! Enjoy it!!

LapBand Surgery 01/10/08, Revison to Sleeve 04/03/12

Colleen S.
on 1/9/12 5:51 am - Mechanicsburg, PA

Lap Band on 07/09/09

Congratulations, this also has always been a dream of mine.. Unfortunately, still dreaming, since I have not been too successful with my band, so I will just be happy for you!!

Wendybrum
on 1/9/12 7:40 am - Oceanside, NY

All i have to say is WOOHOO

wendy

looking4hope
on 1/9/12 8:17 am

Congrats!!!!

Highest 317 6/1 start pre-op diet312 6/15 2 days before surgery303 6/22 5 days post-op296 6/28 11 days post-op 290 7/5 18 days post-op 288 8/19 10 weeks post-op 278 9/10 274 11/6 268 2/18 257 3/26 249 5/14 237

NSV.... The look on the Ex's face.. priceless!!!

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NSV.... The look on the Ex's face.. priceless!!!