I have a date.....yikes

Seriously....

Not a surgery date...a date...date.   My first date in years.  I'm so scared.  I met him on a dating site.  I'm afraid he's going to think I'm fat and ugly.  I lost 150 lbs and I still see a fat girl  in the mirror.  Lord I need some confidence!!!!

I look at your profile picture and I see a beautiful woman with a winning smile.

I read your posts and know that you have a warm heart and compassion to spare.

He is a lucky guy ----- go out, have fun and leave that 'fat girl brain' in the car!

I'm so excited for you! Hope things go well!!!

You look great! Go buy a new outfit you look smokin hot in. Have a great time!

Hi Crystal,
That is awesome!  I met my BF on a dating site, and we've been together 5 years now.  I had the same feelings, but you can't think that way.  I have found that men like women with confidence.  I wasn't confident, but I guess I put on a good show.

Be proud of how great you look (and you DO LOOK GREAT!).  If he's a guy worth having, he will see your beauty, inside and out.  

Just go and have a great time.  And don't forget to let us know how it went...

~ Barbara

you look  great and you've lost 150 lbs!!!!wow!!!! that's great good luck with the date that is so exciting....

Congrats on your date! I met  my husband on Match.com and we hit it off immediately, however, it took a whole lot of dates for me to find a good fit.

My advice is to always have confidence, men are attracted to a woman with confidence and knows what she wants. You've lost a a lot of weight and you should be proud!

Crystal,

Just have a great time honey.  Forget about what anyone else thinks - we have absolutely no control over it.  Quiet now . . . embrace yourself, make peace with yourself.  Smile, laugh, and take off when you are ready.  Whatever you do, do not have a long extended date.  Meet for coffee and have a limited amount of time!

You are a beautiful lady and don't you forget it.  Now have some fun!!!

L

Congratulations!  Be yourself and have a great time!

 Hold your head high! You are a very attractive woman and any man is lucky  to be your date!

Have a wonderful time! Remember, he will be as nervous as you are!

Kate