Geesh!!!!

OMG, you guy lost fat around here but did not lose your meanness. That is why I am looking for another place for support.

So, the fact that Kasondra called me a "stalker" for no reason is less offensive than Pumpkin calling her a "*****"  That seems skewed to me. And, why should Pumpkin be held to some higher standard? If she feels like saying something, she should be able to speak freely without being censored.   Maybe you're not seeing the whole picture because of how Kasondra deleted all of her nasty posts? 

"OMG, you guy lost fat around here but did not lose your meanness. That is why I am looking for another place for support"

You must be telepathic....
 I was thinking the same thing

*S*

If the word "*****" is offensive to you, you can go to settings, message board, and change your adult filter status. Of course, this may also reduce the majority of Kasondra's posts to nonsense as I learned yesterday that four letter words are her very favorite.

I would encourage you to see Kasondra's latest posts to witness true negativity or meanness, but she deleted most of them. I was hoping she deleted them because she realized how wrong she was, but then I read this "apology" where she claims that people just took the things she said the wrong way. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to go back and see exactly what she thinks 37 people all happened to take the "wrong way"...

Hopefully you can take our word for it that "*****" was one of the least offensive words or concepts that was spewed out on the Lap Band board yesterday. Pumpkin can't help but call it as she sees it. It's just a different way of telling someone that they "lost their fat, but not their meanness."

Are there really other boards where people like Kasondra can spew hate about a respected member without anyone else standing up for the respected member? I guess our board could be like that too if we all block Kasondra and those like her and stop seeing all the disgusting attacks.

Anyway, this is a great source of support for a lot of people, but if it isn't working for you, best of luck in your search for a new source of support. Everyone can use some.

Lindsey

I will do my best to not use it here on the lap band board, but I am a potty mouth and I cannot limit myself that much. Will that suffice ?

I don't like this.   You provide information... people are free to take it, if they want it, without dictating to you HOW you are "allowed" to post.

It's not fair to ask you to censor yourself. If a certain word offends a person, they can choose to put on the adult content filter. I like you just the way you are!

Awww you are so freaking cute I'm still going to provide information. I guessing she may have missed the mean and nasty deleted posts from that chick and she only saw my post calling that chick a name.